STRESSSSSSSSSSSED!

futuremrsskarren Posted: May 14, 2011 08:54 PM

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i feel so overwhelmed! I think I need stress management! I want everything to go perfect. HELPP

FutureMrsCat050412 Posted: May 14, 2011 09:04 PM

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You have plenty of time! No need to stress now... I'm saving that for next year

soon2beMrsHenry92912 Posted: May 14, 2011 09:07 PM

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What is stressing you? I think we all worry about our day being perfect...but you do have some time. How can we help?

linda_art Posted: May 14, 2011 09:08 PM

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Haha, we should all start a club!

Alannah22 Posted: May 14, 2011 09:59 PM

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Posted by FutureMrsCat050412

You have plenty of time! No need to stress now... I'm saving that for next year

THIS!! I'm saving all my stress for next year!

soon2bmrsammo Posted: May 14, 2011 11:02 PM

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Posted by linda_art

Haha, we should all start a club!

Yes! I think we should.

pixietina Posted: May 15, 2011 12:19 AM

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I know how you feel. I'm trying to stay calm until it gets closer to the day. Not really working. I don't know how FH can be so calm and I'm up the wall.

5272012 Posted: May 15, 2011 08:20 AM

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I try to stay calm..but then something happens and i get stressed lol

everyone says, i cant imagine how you will be closer to your wedding..but in all honesty i think ill be more relaxed..ill be done with school..not be a first year teacher and not be working on a house..

So yea, we should DEF start a club ha!

mara1017 Posted: May 15, 2011 08:35 AM

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It is overwhelming but you have plenty of time. Don't stress out. We are here to help. If you have specific things you need help with or watt advice just ask. We are all here to help

courtneydemarco12 Posted: May 15, 2011 10:10 AM

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I had gotten a lot of stuff done right after we had gotten engaged and now I am in the 9 month mark and I am not stressed at all and i feel once u get all the big stuff done you will be okay these girls on this board have been so helpful with ideas and just keeping me calm and we will be there for you too.

ChristineNorah Posted: May 15, 2011 07:31 PM

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One of the great aspects of having a longer engagement is you have more time to get everything done. What helps me is to make a list of what I would like to accomplish every month. That way it is not so overwhelming.

BENETTA2012 Posted: May 16, 2011 01:31 PM

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SOUNDS CHEESY BUT MAKE TO DO LISTS...MAKES THE WEDDING PLANNING FEEL MUCH MORE MANAGEABLE AND HELPS YOU ORGANIZE YOUR PRIORITIES!

irisheyezrsmilen Posted: May 16, 2011 01:39 PM

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dont let things stress you out now! you have plenty of time for that, just take everything one step at a time. try not to look at the BIG picture just yet. your only one person and can only do so many things at one time.

jenclifwed Posted: May 16, 2011 01:57 PM

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You have plenty of time! i suggest making a list of things you need to get done as well as a time line. Once we sat down and made our list i felt so much better. If you want a ton of details i would lay those out as well. I have a whole outline of the DIY/ decor details i want to get done layed out in a marketing plan style forma haha (yup im craaayyyzeee)

aj721 Posted: May 16, 2011 07:42 PM

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AlexandMike2012 Posted: May 16, 2011 07:50 PM

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I totally understand, I got like that last week....so I took a step back from wedding planning and told myself I wasn't going to worry about anything else until the summer I have plenty of time..which helped! Just take a deep breath and realize that yes you have time