OK, FH's friend is taking him to some clubs and I have been told it is sort of integral part of American wedding culture. I am not a native resident here and not sure it is true but I am sure I am not very comfortable with it.... What do FHs do on bachelor party then?
KathleenAnne
Posted:
Member since
Re: strip-club bachelor party?
I would never let my FH go to a strip club, even for a bachelor party. They are going out to Montauk for the night to just drink and hang out.
pauladanielle
Posted:
Member since
Re: strip-club bachelor party?
I have no problem with my FH going to a strip club for his bachelor party, but if you are concerned about it, you should absolutely tell him. He should be willing to make sacrifices because you don't want to be resenting him about it later on :/
Jill52787
Posted:
Member since
Re: strip-club bachelor party?
Many girls on here will say 'well if you don't trust him to go to a strip club and not do anything, then you shouldn't be getting married' but in the end, its not always about trust.
Personally, I am uncomfortable with my FH getting grinded on by a half naked woman, and I consider it cheating. I hold myself to the same standard and would never do anything similar.
To the people who will say its about trust- there are girls at bars too, and if they're going to cheat with a stripper, they could just as easily cheat with a random wh0re at a bar.
If you're not comfortable with it- you should definitely tell him BEFORE anything happens.
dolphinjsw
Posted:
Member since
Re: strip-club bachelor party?
its about trust- sorry my husband went to gossip for his
rdhbride
Posted:
Member since
Re: strip-club bachelor party?
Posted by Jill52787
Many girls on here will say 'well if you don't trust him to go to a strip club and not do anything, then you shouldn't be getting married' but in the end, its not always about trust.
Personally, I am uncomfortable with my FH getting grinded on by a half naked woman, and I consider it cheating. I hold myself to the same standard and would never do anything similar.
To the people who will say its about trust- there are girls at bars too, and if they're going to cheat with a stripper, they could just as easily cheat with a random wh0re at a bar.
If you're not comfortable with it- you should definitely tell him BEFORE anything happens.
This!
tara5533
Posted:
Member since
Re: strip-club bachelor party?
I really does not bother me that his boys are taking him to a strip club I am going to one for my Bach Party so I can not be a hpoyrite and tell him he can not go to one I know who he is coming home too and its me not the girls at the strip club
Lilnessa
Posted:
Member since
Re: strip-club bachelor party?
My FH went to miami for his bachelor party and his friends ended up taking him to a strip club. Im not one for that sort of thing but i figured his friends would do that, since its the stereotypical bachelor party thing to do! I told him i was fine with it so long as it was his friends' money not ours that was spent on the strippers!
Jill52787
Posted:
Member since
Re: strip-club bachelor party?
Posted by dolphinjsw
its about trust- sorry my husband went to gossip for his
Sorry, it might be about trust for you, but it just isn't the case for everyone. Guys are probably MUCH more likely to cheat with a random girl at a bar than with a stripper.
