strip clubs...

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Posted by Alexandra17

there is one rule! no touch

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That's my rule too. Although FH thinks they are tacky so he wouldn't go anyway.

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Posted by Sandradv121

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

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Posted by RitasEngaged

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

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Posted by RitasEngaged

I used to go to strip clubs all the time with my gf and when I left the first person I called - FH

So the whole night your FH is going to get 'wound Up' and then he will come home to YOU

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id have an issue having FH come home to ME all horny because he has images of OTHER NAKED WOMEN he needs to get off to!!!

thats just so not ok in my book

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Does your FH watch porn?

Mine does so to me it is like the same thing KWIM?

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NO! LOL my FH doesn't watch porn!....hes not into it at all, he doesnt own any nudie mags, nothing....

i try to convince him to watch porn with me, so we can like imitate the scenes, but he just has no interest!!

they go hand in hand, im sure if he liked porn hed like strip clubs too, but he jus dont!

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Mine doesn't like it either. I am very blessed

Rita is just a freek-a-leek you have to excuse her

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do you ever find it weird that ur FH is like that??? cuz i find it SOOOOOOOOOOO odd that theres even guys in the world nowadays (with everyone being so obsessed with sex) that there are guys that arent into porn/strip clubs!

i used to think he was lying alllll the time, but he doesnt even own a computer, i live at his house half the week, id definitely see mags if he had them, n im so open wth it that he knows hed be able to tell me if he did, so im over not believing him now, but i still find it so odd sometimes!!!

dont get me wrong im SO HAPPY that i got a guy whos not all into that stuff (theres a study that shows that guys who look at that stuff, and constantly focus on other really attractive women start to find their mates less and less attractive as time goes on)

i think its also the saying about finding a guy like ur dad....cuz my dad HATES strip clubs, hes gone a couple times w/friends, and hates them for all the same reasons FH does...so maybe thats it!

also, FH lost his virginity alot later than most guys do, so maybe that has something to do with it

i dont fault people who dont mind it...its just not me. i do not think its acceptable because if a girl on the street did that to your man you would think its cheating but beacuse they are strippers and you pay them for it people think its ok.

if your man came hom from drinking with the boys and said a girl rubbed her boobs in his face naked and then gave him a lap dance you prob wouldnt be happy but since it was a stripper people say its ok. dont get it

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

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Posted by Sandradv121

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

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Posted by RitasEngaged

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

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Posted by RitasEngaged

I used to go to strip clubs all the time with my gf and when I left the first person I called - FH

So the whole night your FH is going to get 'wound Up' and then he will come home to YOU

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id have an issue having FH come home to ME all horny because he has images of OTHER NAKED WOMEN he needs to get off to!!!

thats just so not ok in my book

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Does your FH watch porn?

Mine does so to me it is like the same thing KWIM?

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NO! LOL my FH doesn't watch porn!....hes not into it at all, he doesnt own any nudie mags, nothing....

i try to convince him to watch porn with me, so we can like imitate the scenes, but he just has no interest!!

they go hand in hand, im sure if he liked porn hed like strip clubs too, but he jus dont!

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Mine doesn't like it either. I am very blessed

Rita is just a freek-a-leek you have to excuse her

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do you ever find it weird that ur FH is like that??? cuz i find it SOOOOOOOOOOO odd that theres even guys in the world nowadays (with everyone being so obsessed with sex) that there are guys that arent into porn/strip clubs!

i used to think he was lying alllll the time, but he doesnt even own a computer, i live at his house half the week, id definitely see mags if he had them, n im so open wth it that he knows hed be able to tell me if he did, so im over not believing him now, but i still find it so odd sometimes!!!

dont get me wrong im SO HAPPY that i got a guy whos not all into that stuff (theres a study that shows that guys who look at that stuff, and constantly focus on other really attractive women start to find their mates less and less attractive as time goes on)

i think its also the saying about finding a guy like ur dad....cuz my dad HATES strip clubs, hes gone a couple times w/friends, and hates them for all the same reasons FH does...so maybe thats it!

also, FH lost his virginity alot later than most guys do, so maybe that has something to do with it

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It is not weird at all that he is like that

My FH hates stip clubs but he likes the occasional porn and he doesn't even look at other women.

Mine lost his virginity a lot later than me and a lot later than most guys to and I am def more exp than him in that dept

hmm.. FH has never been to one actually.
I've been to them a few times, both guys and a girls one. (the guys one was a little weird and made me feel a little uncomfortable actually, guys = girls stripping)

I've actually mentioned to him that he should go to one so i guess i don't have a problem with it. Maybe i don't have a problem though cuz he hasn't gone though

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Posted by CloudNine

i dont fault people who dont mind it...its just not me. i do not think its acceptable because if a girl on the street did that to your man you would think its cheating but beacuse they are strippers and you pay them for it people think its ok.

if your man came hom from drinking with the boys and said a girl rubbed her boobs in his face naked and then gave him a lap dance you prob wouldnt be happy but since it was a stripper people say its ok. dont get it

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I agree with you I just think since that is there job than people dismiss it - I just think strippers are immune to it and don't think anything of being naked and doing those things

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Posted by AdriandSteve

hmm.. FH has never been to one actually.
I've been to them a few times, both guys and a girls one. (the guys one was a little weird and made me feel a little uncomfortable actually, guys = girls stripping)

I've actually mentioned to him that he should go to one so i guess i don't have a problem with it. Maybe i don't have a problem though cuz he hasn't gone though

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All I know is that if his step brothers werent coming to town this never would have happened, Im hoping there flight gets cancelled

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

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Posted by Sandradv121

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

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Posted by RitasEngaged

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

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Posted by RitasEngaged

I used to go to strip clubs all the time with my gf and when I left the first person I called - FH

So the whole night your FH is going to get 'wound Up' and then he will come home to YOU

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id have an issue having FH come home to ME all horny because he has images of OTHER NAKED WOMEN he needs to get off to!!!

thats just so not ok in my book

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Does your FH watch porn?

Mine does so to me it is like the same thing KWIM?

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NO! LOL my FH doesn't watch porn!....hes not into it at all, he doesnt own any nudie mags, nothing....

i try to convince him to watch porn with me, so we can like imitate the scenes, but he just has no interest!!

they go hand in hand, im sure if he liked porn hed like strip clubs too, but he jus dont!

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Mine doesn't like it either. I am very blessed

Rita is just a freek-a-leek you have to excuse her

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do you ever find it weird that ur FH is like that??? cuz i find it SOOOOOOOOOOO odd that theres even guys in the world nowadays (with everyone being so obsessed with sex) that there are guys that arent into porn/strip clubs!

i used to think he was lying alllll the time, but he doesnt even own a computer, i live at his house half the week, id definitely see mags if he had them, n im so open wth it that he knows hed be able to tell me if he did, so im over not believing him now, but i still find it so odd sometimes!!!

dont get me wrong im SO HAPPY that i got a guy whos not all into that stuff (theres a study that shows that guys who look at that stuff, and constantly focus on other really attractive women start to find their mates less and less attractive as time goes on)

i think its also the saying about finding a guy like ur dad....cuz my dad HATES strip clubs, hes gone a couple times w/friends, and hates them for all the same reasons FH does...so maybe thats it!

also, FH lost his virginity alot later than most guys do, so maybe that has something to do with it

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No, I don't really find it weird, I think He prefers the real thing you know >:)
FH told me when we started dating that he didn't like them because its a tease and a waste of money and he out grew it. Plus he says they are dirty. He does look every now and than and as long as he is not googley eyed than theres nothing to fight about. But if I were to ask him 'Babe, what do you think of strip clubs...' he would flat out say 'those girls are dirty and why would I waste time and money at place like that.' I guess you can say that he finally grew up a bit...

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Posted by Kerri Lynn

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Posted by AdriandSteve

hmm.. FH has never been to one actually.
I've been to them a few times, both guys and a girls one. (the guys one was a little weird and made me feel a little uncomfortable actually, guys = girls stripping)

I've actually mentioned to him that he should go to one so i guess i don't have a problem with it. Maybe i don't have a problem though cuz he hasn't gone though

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All I know is that if his step brothers werent coming to town this never would have happened, Im hoping there flight gets cancelled

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Pray for snow :)

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Posted by Sandradv121

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Posted by Kerri Lynn

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Posted by AdriandSteve

hmm.. FH has never been to one actually.
I've been to them a few times, both guys and a girls one. (the guys one was a little weird and made me feel a little uncomfortable actually, guys = girls stripping)

I've actually mentioned to him that he should go to one so i guess i don't have a problem with it. Maybe i don't have a problem though cuz he hasn't gone though

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All I know is that if his step brothers werent coming to town this never would have happened, Im hoping there flight gets cancelled

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Pray for snow :)

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Even thought I hate , I am def. going too!!

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Posted by Kerri Lynn

I told my FH , we live in flippin NYC of all places and they want to go to strip club....its nuts.

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You shouldn't have to pray for snow though. You should be able to talk to him and convey to him why it bothers you. I'm sure he will respect your wishes.

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

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Posted by marrymybestfriend

as a guy....

i feel awkward in strip clubs. it's weird that a girl is rubbing all over you, while other guys watch. it's weird to me. but more importantly, i think they area complete waste of money.

i have a friend, he was my roommate, that would go every friday night. and he used to tell me i was stupid for not going with them. my response would be...

'how much money did you spend?'

'about $150'

'so you spent $150 on watered down drinks, and girls shaking their (o)(o) in your face, and you came home with nothing. i stayed home and had sex with my girlfriend for fre. TWICE!!'

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this is why FH hates the whole idea....he figures 'why get teased by some trashy girls that are doing the same thing for hundreds of other guys and have to PAY for it??'

i can do all that stuff for him, give him some afterwards, and not cost a penny!!!!

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precisely!!!

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Posted by laurenandmike618

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Posted by Kerri Lynn

I told my FH , we live in flippin NYC of all places and they want to go to strip club....its nuts.

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You shouldn't have to pray for snow though. You should be able to talk to him and convey to him why it bothers you. I'm sure he will respect your wishes.

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Oh I def. know he will understand. But its great hearing everyones opinions and makes it soo much easier.

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Posted by Sandradv121

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Posted by CloudNine

male strip clubs are GROSSSSSS. they are all shiny and oily and thrusting around in g strings..ugh i wanna throw up. thats so not attractive to me

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There is something seriously wrong when nakked GUYS are booty popping for a buck lol

My verdict still stands: Female Strip Clubs are nasty, raunchy, STD incrusted lol and Male ones are for the sheer entertainment of watching a dude make an a$$ of himself while he attempts to shake his sweaty nasty body lol

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well hold on... i am a firm believer that it has to be both ways. my best friend had a bachelor party... and we were NOT ALLOWED to go to a strip club. even though we werent going to... we were told NOOOOO!!! . but then when she had her bachelorette party... they went to a male strip club. i thought that was VERY WRONG, nad very hypecritical. i dont care if they are different. i dont care if the men 'just put on a show'. it's the same general thing. and i think if on e isnt allowed to go... the other isnt either!!!

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Posted by RitasEngaged

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

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Posted by RitasEngaged

I used to go to strip clubs all the time with my gf and when I left the first person I called - FH

So the whole night your FH is going to get 'wound Up' and then he will come home to YOU

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id have an issue having FH come home to ME all horny because he has images of OTHER NAKED WOMEN he needs to get off to!!!

thats just so not ok in my book

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Does your FH watch porn?

Mine does so to me it is like the same thing KWIM?

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watching porno is differnt that having a nipple rubbed across your face, and an A$$ grinded in your lap!!