strip clubs

omg so fh and i went to a strip club last night...i dont mind the dancing, i dont mind looking at the girls...but the lap dances?!?!?!?!?

blehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

i'm going to need lots and lots of vodka when fh goes to vegas in sept for his bach party

well nothing really but i've only been twice... once w/girls and another w/a guy i dated and didnt care for...

i think bc its fh it pissed me off.... i just dont want to even picture it...lol i'm so traumatized!!!!!!

ehh yea id be,too

but in vegas he'll prob gamble and drink.. not so much strip clubs.

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Posted by SoonToBMrsC

did he actually get a lap dance last night? or are you just picturing him getting one in vegas??

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no he didnt get one..i think i would have fought the stripper lol

his 2 friends did though... eww
i'm picturing vegas!!!

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Posted by latinaj


no he didnt get one..i think i would have fought the stripper lol

his 2 friends did though... eww
i'm picturing vegas!!!

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ohhhh ok! hahaha I was gonna say, damn girl how did you keep your cool, I definitely wouldn't of been having that!

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Posted by MikesBride2B

Am I the only one who doesn't care at all if a stripper rubs her asss all over my man? I'm weird.

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i guess i'm weird too....i really don't care as long as it doesn't become routine that he goes there but if he goes once in a blue moon i could care less.

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Posted by MikesBride2B

Am I the only one who doesn't care at all if a stripper rubs her asss all over my man? I'm weird.

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Possibly! lol. No but seriously I know that there are alot of girls that really don't care, but honestly it's not my thing. I think that strippers and strip clubs are nasty and dirty lol. I have never been to a strip club nor do I have a desire too. I don't need some guy rubbing his nasty $hit all up on me....no thank you. I don't need my husband, father of my (future) kids in that nasty atmosphere either. But that just my opinion! Everybody has there own thing guess, lol!

Possibly! lol. No but seriously I know that there are alot of girls that really don't care, but honestly it's not my thing. I think that strippers and strip clubs are nasty and dirty lol. I have never been to a strip club nor do I have a desire too. I don't need some guy rubbing his nasty $hit all up on me....no thank you. I don't need my husband, father of my (future) kids in that nasty atmosphere either. But that just my opinion! Everybody has there own thing guess, lol!

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I completely agree with what you said.

Sorry, Ilana... i'm on the complete opposite end.

I'm totally not into that whole thing.

Because I HAVE been to strip clubs and have seen things that I was skeeved out going on with guys who WEREN'T my boyfriend/FH.

FH knows this and got the point way early on in our relationship that one, if he wanted to be hanging out and spending money to have girls crawl all over him... we could go our own ways.

My feeling is that if you haven't gotten that out of your system by the time you're 30 -- then you're probably the guy who is going to be 'that creepy old guy' and I don't want to be married to that creepy old guy.

Also... I think if you asked a lot of guys if they would be okay with their women doing to another guy what a stripper is apt to do to them at a strip club... they wouldn't be okay with it.

I know my FH wouldn't be.

But more power to you.

FH doesn't have money to take my out to breakfast - he certainly ain't throwing money at a naked girl LOL.

I'm totally against it and thankfully FH is too. Why pay for something he can get for free?

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Posted by weddingbees

Sorry, Ilana... i'm on the complete opposite end.

I'm totally not into that whole thing.

Because I HAVE been to strip clubs and have seen things that I was skeeved out going on with guys who WEREN'T my boyfriend/FH.

FH knows this and got the point way early on in our relationship that one, if he wanted to be hanging out and spending money to have girls crawl all over him... we could go our own ways.

My feeling is that if you haven't gotten that out of your system by the time you're 30 -- then you're probably the guy who is going to be 'that creepy old guy' and I don't want to be married to that creepy old guy.

Also... I think if you asked a lot of guys if they would be okay with their women doing to another guy what a stripper is apt to do to them at a strip club... they wouldn't be okay with it.

I know my FH wouldn't be.

But more power to you.

FH doesn't have money to take my out to breakfast - he certainly ain't throwing money at a naked girl LOL.

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Don't get me wrong...if FH was frequently going to strip clubs, I would have a very different opinion on him going. FH has never been to a strip club and wants to go to one for his bparty to have the 'full experience' of a typical bparty...in that case, I really don't care. If they get him all riled up, he'll come home to me and it'll be a good night for me haha.

If he were going on a weekly basis, I'd say there's something seriously wrong and I definitely would not be with him.

Also...I hate male strippers, I think they're disgusting and them rubbing their banana hammock encased junk all over me is not a turn on at all.

BLEEEH. i think lap dances are nasty. I went to one strip club with an ex in Florida. They get completely naked there and the lapdances are RAUNCY as hellllllllll.

Thankfully, FH isn't into strip clubs and lapdances (he DJed at one for years when he was younger so I think he just grew tired of them). He doesn't want to go to one for his bparty and told the Gms that! WHEWWWWWW

I feel you! But they will probably be GAMBLING most of the time. FH went to one in AC and all they did was gamble and drink!

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Posted by weddingbees

Sorry, Ilana... i'm on the complete opposite end.

I'm totally not into that whole thing.

Because I HAVE been to strip clubs and have seen things that I was skeeved out going on with guys who WEREN'T my boyfriend/FH.

FH knows this and got the point way early on in our relationship that one, if he wanted to be hanging out and spending money to have girls crawl all over him... we could go our own ways.

My feeling is that if you haven't gotten that out of your system by the time you're 30 -- then you're probably the guy who is going to be 'that creepy old guy' and I don't want to be married to that creepy old guy.

Also... I think if you asked a lot of guys if they would be okay with their women doing to another guy what a stripper is apt to do to them at a strip club... they wouldn't be okay with it.

I know my FH wouldn't be.

But more power to you.

FH doesn't have money to take my out to breakfast - he certainly ain't throwing money at a naked girl LOL.

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ITA with you Becki, and lucky for me, FH agrees also and isn't into it. He got all of that out of his system when he was young! :)

Ive been there and just seen and heard such NASTY things. To each there own. As long as you and FH are on the same page, it's fine. It just skeeves me. And if you wouldnt want your woman doing that to another man, how can you justify getting it done to you. That's how I see it.

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Posted by stinenandy2010

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Posted by MikesBride2B

Am I the only one who doesn't care at all if a stripper rubs her asss all over my man? I'm weird.

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i guess i'm weird too....i really don't care as long as it doesn't become routine that he goes there but if he goes once in a blue moon i could care less.

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I'm weird too! I've been begging FH to take me to a strip club so I can buy him a lap dance! I don't know what I but I think it's funny! He only goes for bachelor parties and one random night that I had to work but it was with our norm group of friends. So, like, WHATEVER!

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Posted by stinenandy2010

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Posted by MikesBride2B

Am I the only one who doesn't care at all if a stripper rubs her asss all over my man? I'm weird.

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i guess i'm weird too....i really don't care as long as it doesn't become routine that he goes there but if he goes once in a blue moon i could care less.

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I don't care and I am weird.