Strippers and Stuff
Both FH and I are having surprise bachelor and bachelorette parties, but the issue came up the other night about wheather or not to have strippers at the parties. My FH told my sister that by means is she allowed to hire a stripper or take me to a strip club. In fact he told her, no men are to be present at my bachelorette, besides my father. My FH was really offended by the idea and gets angry just talking about it.
Well, I heard from my brother that my FH's best friend is planning on getting a stripper for his bachelor party. I don't really mind strippers that much. I'd prefer they go without, but as long as my FH behaves it's ok. My only two problems with having the stripper is if I can't have one, why can he? I know he doesn't know yet and I'm not going to tell him, but I hate this double standard crap.
Also, I talked to his friends about the stripper and requested they do something else. They told me to stop trying to control his life, that I was being stupid and that I need to let him just be a guy for one night. See, FH's friends don't like me much 'cause they think I'm the reason he's stuck with 2 kids and wife before 25. So they do and say things just to piss me off. My FH is aware of the problem, but insists they will 'get over it'. Only now I feel like their going to lead my FH to do something he's going to regret.
I think I'm just going to let everything be for now and see what happens, but it just really makes me angry that my feelings aren't even taken into consideration.![]()
Well, I heard from my brother that my FH's best friend is planning on getting a stripper for his bachelor party. I don't really mind strippers that much. I'd prefer they go without, but as long as my FH behaves it's ok. My only two problems with having the stripper is if I can't have one, why can he? I know he doesn't know yet and I'm not going to tell him, but I hate this double standard crap.
Also, I talked to his friends about the stripper and requested they do something else. They told me to stop trying to control his life, that I was being stupid and that I need to let him just be a guy for one night. See, FH's friends don't like me much 'cause they think I'm the reason he's stuck with 2 kids and wife before 25. So they do and say things just to piss me off. My FH is aware of the problem, but insists they will 'get over it'. Only now I feel like their going to lead my FH to do something he's going to regret.
I think I'm just going to let everything be for now and see what happens, but it just really makes me angry that my feelings aren't even taken into consideration.
