So I have a Bridal party consisting of a MOH and BM. My MOH, after more than one talk with her is just being HORRIBLE. A selfish, pity party throwing, useless witch. Now, I am a very gentle person. It doesn't pay for me to get loud, nasty, or even engage when someone else is being nasty. It's usually their stuff and I'd rather not personalize it. Long story short, shes always compared us, usually when I do something, she soon after does. BUT, Not this time! Shes going through her own issues and is not capable of being there for me at all. When I confronted her recently she attacked, got defensive, and then when I wasn't reacting took the pity party root and said, 'Well, its really hard for me to get up in the morning.' This quick mood swing, was a matter of a minute. SO, CLEARLY she's not capable. I'm not even asking her to do much, just show an interest and care, spend some time dress shopping, look through mags with me, talk to my SIL in CT who is putting together the Bridal Shower.
She text me the other day and wrote, 'you know what it is, it's like u expect me to be ur mother.'
Nice! My mom died 7yrs ago, my stepmom died 4yrs ago today. I havent even asked this nasty sicko to do anything close to being a mother role. I didn't react to her text. We haven't spoke in days... At the moment I think shes a terrible human being and im disgusted. She does some shady **** in her life but never to me before...
My FH had a few mths off of work and was home doing all of the wedding planning, etc. Now hes back to work 6 days a week and I have absolutely no interest. I NEED A GTG with some of you ladies but can never seem to make it when there is one.
I've just been feeling out of it, sad, and uninterested, and disappointed in MOH who has been my BF for almost 15yrs...
Hopefully after the 5/1 GTG you all have the next one sooner rather than later. I need to be around other positive happy brides, people who are on more of the same level of life and capable of feeling happy for each other.
Thanks for listening.
Rivera2be
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I just want to say sorry that you are dealing with this, it is supposed to be a time to enjoy and have the full support of your friends. I can also relate to the comment she made, which is so hurtful! That was really insensitive of her. It sounds like you have been friends for a long time, I would suggest having a serious talk with her and discuss how her actions and her comments are hurting you and your friendship.
