Sunday: QOTD: 2/28

Panamasweet Posted: Feb 28, 2010 08:07 AM

Sunday: QOTD: 2/28

Someone brought this to my attention yesterday so I thought it would make a good question for today.

Do you feel you have been a bridezilla since you started planning or have people told you that are a bridezilla?

I will totally admit I have been having bridezilla moments. I feel like i am spending SOOOO much money on this day that I want everything perfect. I also must admit that I had a bit of a bridezilla attitude before i got engaged. I am a control freak so i like things done a certain way and just feel if I want it done correctly I should just do it myself.

HoopsnYoyo Posted: Feb 28, 2010 08:37 AM

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I never thought I would be a Bridezilla, but I have to admit, I am having those moments. My mom wanted to have her dress be a similar color to that of the BMs and I went CRAZY on my mom. I don't want my mom looking like a BM!!!

I've had Bridezilla moments when I have people telling me what to do and I get frustrated because it's MY wedding and not theirs. I understand that these people have experience but I dont like people are telling how to plan my wedding!!!

FutureMrsLots Posted: Feb 28, 2010 08:46 AM

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My family told me that I'm bridezilla, but that's only because we have a difference of opinion. I only feel like I've been bridezilla on one or two occasions so far.

Ang9483 Posted: Feb 28, 2010 08:55 AM

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My hubby says I get into crazy mode whenever I plan anything. I need to be organized and neat and I like to have everything written out. I kind of need things to be my way and IF i do ask someone for help and they don't want to or don't give me the right answer I get kind of annoyed. Soo I guess I can have my moments. But I can't help it. I just need to have everything organized and done right.

Im getting Married Posted: Feb 28, 2010 09:39 AM

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I do not think I am Bridezilla. I do not ask anything from anyone.

The only thing I have been told is that I'm obsessed. My mom worries that if something goes wrong at the wedding I will flip.

dCa51899 Posted: Feb 28, 2010 10:10 AM

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I don't feel that I've been a bridezilla at all. I'm usually a really calm person & it takes a lot to really get me to flip out about anything. I also haven't done much planning, so maybe as the day gets closer, I'll feel more of the stress, but so far, I've been OK (at least on the outside lol). FMIL jokingly calls me a bridezilla but I think she's just making fun of how much research I do and how obsessed I am, not that I'm being a B!tch.

harts2976 Posted: Feb 28, 2010 10:14 AM

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I don't think so at all. No one has said anything haha. I haven't booked too much but have done a lot of dress shopping with the girls. They actually think I am taking too much into consideration how each person will look and be comfortable. I just dont want them to feel like they are ugly or it fits funny!!

Mrsluv2be Posted: Feb 28, 2010 10:21 AM

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I don't feel that I'm a bridezilla........just as yet. Maybe as time drraws closer to the wedding I will change into one. I'm pretty cool for now.

BellaBride27 Posted: Feb 28, 2010 10:51 AM

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Iv been called by a bridezilla a few times by my mom and my sisters...i guess i have had a few moments...but i don't think i am one..they are expecting the worst though as the planning continues

Tetelove Posted: Feb 28, 2010 11:06 AM

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I don't think I have been a bridezilla in the past but my family and FH is like 'were waiting for the beast to come out.' I just want things to go the way that I want considering we are the one's paying for the it.

FutureJOC Posted: Feb 28, 2010 03:49 PM

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Not at all actually. I mean there are certain things that I would like to have or do but I'm not going to flip out if I don't get my way. And I think the times where I do get a little demanding about things it's not Bridezilla-ish, it's just to get the ball rolling on certain things - like the guest list with FH. I want to start getting our STD's together and figure and exact # so I can continue to plan things and I can't do that without a complete guest list. That's about the only thing I've gotten on his case about.

Danielle41209 Posted: Feb 28, 2010 05:46 PM

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My family thinks thats I will become a bridezilla because of how organized I can be. I hope that I never reach that level. I do have bridezilla moments but I try to keep them away from people because they are moments, not big issues.

futurestevens Posted: Feb 28, 2010 06:14 PM

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I don't think so at all. Then again, there is still so much time before the wedding that I can't really get stressed about anything yet. The worst I've heard is that I cannot have a conversation without mentioning something about the wedding...oops!

monkeemunk Posted: Feb 28, 2010 07:23 PM

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I don't think I've been a bridezilla...I had a slight moment when I couldn't decide on a rh but that was more stress to myself (no sleep, etc.) to anyone else. But ask someone else around me they might disagree.... Hahahahhahaha

DMLHeartsCRM Posted: Feb 28, 2010 07:29 PM

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I havent been one, but my sister who is getting married in September of this year has been a complete one. But she's getting better.

evita2781 Posted: Feb 28, 2010 07:44 PM

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i don't think i've been one - i haven't done much planning to even get to the point of being a bridezilla - although FH says that word to try and annoy me sometimes - and I have to remind him all the time that i've been so flexible w/ so many things that i can't even come close to being called one

Jessc4985 Posted: Feb 28, 2010 09:48 PM

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I have not been a bridezilla yet, BUT I am waiting for the day!!! LOL

LoveyDovey Posted: Feb 28, 2010 10:26 PM

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Posted by Jessc4985

I have not been a bridezilla yet, BUT I am waiting for the day!!! LOL

lol same here!

chrisandjeanne Posted: Feb 28, 2010 10:28 PM

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Posted by LoveyDovey

Posted by Jessc4985

I have not been a bridezilla yet, BUT I am waiting for the day!!! LOL

lol same here!

ITA

SimHawk8 Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:44 AM

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Posted by HoopsnYoyo

I've had Bridezilla moments when I have people telling me what to do and I get frustrated because it's MY wedding and not theirs. I understand that these people have experience but I dont like people are telling how to plan my wedding!!!

Ita. Then people get mad at you for wanting to do things your way when its your wedding and they call you a bridezilla because of that. I think its unfair.