suprise spoiled

I'm so bummed...I really wanted my shower to be a suprise...I've been so careful not to look at anyone's calendar or fridge thinking I might see something....today i was at my cousins house for a birthday party..and without thinking I looked at the calendar to see what day my brothers birthday was falling on....well there is was...my shower ..and I never would have thought they would have had it on his birthday....oh well I guess now I have to do the whole fake suprised look

That stinks. I'm sorry.

I so know what you mean! I was at my FMIL's the other day and saw the invite - I had to physically restrain myself from opening it to see when it is!

its not the end of the world... and I wouldnt 'act' surprised either-- let them know you know--- I knew about mine too- and it was so much better-- I got there and greeted my guests and time wasnt wasted on 'waiting' gfor me to get there...

besidess better you know than give them hell about going!! hahaha

at least now you can be all ready for it! at least that's how i'd feel. I want to be able to get all dolled up for my shower.

sorry to hear that I woud be upset to because I love surprises!!

I dont get why people put it on the calendar that is displayed! I would never do that lol. I would try to snoop even though I wouldnt want to know if that made sense.

I know when I did my sisters she was so surprised so I want that too!