My fiance worked really really really hard to make my proposal a surprise. He had this one neurotic bride2be try and sabotoge it for me and he like isolated me from her for a long time. He worked hard!!!
I would like to surprise him with something at the wedding. He is so into making MY day special and I kind of feel bad for him.
Here are my ideas: -Chocolate Fountain -2nd photographer to photograph him getting ready -Or a musical performance (Soloist) for the cocktail hr
Did anyone have or is having any surprises for FH?
AJsMommy122
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I did the chocolate fountain mainly for him.. but he already knows about it
I am also having a big breakfast catered to his house that morning for him and his family and his gm so no one has to worry about cooking but everyone still eats.
I am also going to write him a really nice letter and have his best man hand it to him right before the wedding with a gift
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That is so sweet! The breakfast!!!! I like that idea. The problem is he lives home with his parents so they will enjoy in my baby's surprise and I am not thrilled about that.
The letter I wanna do as well. That is nice.
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I think the 2nd photographer is nice because it captures memories of him getting ready that you both can always look back on.
I'm surprising FH with a casino/cards themed grooms cake at the RD.
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That is so sweet! The breakfast!!!! I like that idea. The problem is he lives home with his parents so they will enjoy in my baby's surprise and I am not thrilled about that.
The letter I wanna do as well. That is nice.
We live together but he is going to stay at his mothers the night before and get ready there. I am going to make sure its enough food for his whole family and the groomsmen.
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The breakfast is a possibility. He has 12 brothers and sisters though as well. That is bigger than all the groomsmen!
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I think the 2nd photographer is nice because it captures memories of him getting ready that you both can always look back on.
I'm surprising FH with a casino/cards themed grooms cake at the RD.
Who is making your Grooms cake?
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The breakfast is a possibility. He has 12 brothers and sisters though as well. That is bigger than all the groomsmen!
lol wow!!!! Well I dont think I would do it if it were that many people!! lol My fh only has 1 brother and 1 sister and there is 5 groomsmen ( one being his brother) Plus his sister will be with me getting ready so she dosent count
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I'm having the DJ announce a special song dedicated by his new wife - he has no idea.
halloweenbride04
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Posted by halloweenbride04
I think the 2nd photographer is nice because it captures memories of him getting ready that you both can always look back on.
I'm surprising FH with a casino/cards themed grooms cake at the RD.
Who is making your Grooms cake?
I haven't quite figured that out yet but I was thinking of trying Create-a-cake in Port Jeff or the Rolling Pin in Setauket.
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i was going to surprise my husband with one of those Cigar Roller people who comes in and rolls the cigars for guests during the dessert part of the reception.....but then i realized i couldn't afford it
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Is there something he wants really bad but would never treat himself to? I bought FH a mens bracelet b/c he looked at everytime we were in the store but always said it is too expensive. I am a sucker, I gave it to him alredy. But, he wears it everyday and loves it!
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I am having a groom's cake of YAnkee stadium made by Dortoni's.
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I know my FH six years and in those six years he has not taken a real vacation (our HM will be the first long vacation in years!) so, I'm thinking of a few things to do for him prior to the wedding, not at the wedding:
1-day spa just for him 2-a gift certificate to his favorite driving and archery ranges 3-a weekend get-away to myrtle beach--with a friend instead of me (flying him on Hooters Air just for the fun of it!)
I would go with either #2 or 3 of your choices. Keep in mind, he'll be happy with anything because he loves you!
I am having a groom's cake of YAnkee stadium made by Dortoni's.
I absolutely love this idea! Is Dortoni's in LI?
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I love the idea of the 2nd photographer - you'll always be able to treasure those moments and its the one part of the day you wont have to miss out on!
You better believe there is!! It was a joke between us because I didn't beleive it at first either. His married friends said their wives would never allow them to go on it and I was like -- why not? I think it's hysterical!
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I'm going to get my FH a groom's cake of his car (his 2nd love next to me ).
ETA: I think all 3 of you ideas are great! What a tough choice. I love the 2nd photographer idea. If you were to choose 2, I would say go for that and then weigh whether he is more of a chocolate-aholic or music lover.
