SWR: super bummed

This is my super-bratty b*tch-fest.

Last week I posted about how FH had lost his job and that we were in a state of transition (still getting married though). I was on vacation (from work only.....I was sitting on my a*s at home all week) and today I'm back to work. Last week our whole situation didn't really hit me, I kinda just felt like a drained-out zombie....now today, I feel like everything is crashing down.

Honestly.....I can't remember being this depressed since high school. I don't feel like myself.

To Recap Last week: My FH lost his job. I broke something glass that was sentimental to me. Had to cancel my e-pics due to FH's job loss. My engagement ring broke and I almost lost my stone (it's still broken and I'm very upset about it). My car got all funky on Friday (the car guy claims there is 'nothing' wrong with it...whatever cars don't shut off all by themselves), along with some other little things.

I know that I'm supposed to be looking on the bright side and staying positive for FH but I'm finding it a little difficult. I don't want to even think about my own wedding (just all of yours ;) )....it's now just becoming this huge weight (there is NO chance in hell I'm cancelling......the first thing FH said to me when he got 'the news' was 'NOTHING changes'....i love FH)

THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE THE HAPPIEST TIME IN MY (OUR) LIFE!!!!!!! And it totally was....until sh*t started to get all ridiculous. I just can't seem to get a grip on anything.......thank whoever that FH has been like a rock.....at least one of us is not driving themselves totally insane (i'm the one that handles our finances...maybe that's got something to do with it.......)

I also keep thinking really evil thoughts about his old boss....I could always pull the disgruntled-bride card, right? UGH!!!

I'm sorry about the b*tchy-downer post....but I just....ugh....I don't know.

In the meantime, I'll get a bottle of JD and just sit here and wait for things to get better.....but I'm definetly not holding my breath.

Thanks for listening.....er...reading. :

I've been a little down too...all I can say is hang in there..we cant sulk or things will get worse..we need to try and make the most of it...easier said than done I know..

don't be sad - you WILL get through this rough patch and then things will be better than ever

im sorry for you two, sometimes the bad luck just doesnt stop rolling. Im sure FH will find an even better job and everything will work out!

Im so sorry this is happening....I hope everything comes together and FH will be back on his feet..which Im sure he will be.

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Posted by TGs Lady 22908

To Recap Last week: My FH lost his job. I broke something glass that was sentimental to me. Had to cancel my e-pics due to FH's job loss. My engagement ring broke and I almost lost my stone (it's still broken and I'm very upset about it). My car got all funky on Friday (the car guy claims there is 'nothing' wrong with it...whatever cars don't shut off all by themselves), along with some other little things.
Thanks for listening.....er...reading. :

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Your FH WILL find another job - even if it's not in his field or whatever, you guys will make it...

Your stuff that is broken - the glass and your ring - don't forget it's just MATERIAL. The glass thing, you still have the memory and nothing can break that! And your ring - you still have the MAN. The love of your life, your rock, the one thing you can count on for better or WORSE, for richer or POORER. And maybe your car was just having a bad day...

You need to have a good cry, lean on your FH, let him tell you that everything is going to be OK, because it will!

don't be sorry about the downer post! we're here to support eachother, good or bad. if you ever need to talk about anything feel free to post it and please feel free to FM me. I can understand how hard it is to be depressed during this time that's supposed to be wonderful and exciting.

it's understandable that you feel the way you do. i wish there was something profound i could say to make you feel better but all i've really got is a lot of cyber hugs and and a lot of free time to listen if you need someone to talk, or type to.

hang in there, it's gotta rain before you can see a rainbow.

your FH sounds like a really sweet guy and this just shows that you guys can get through anything! Everything will work out

I'm sure things will start to look up for you!!!! Just focus on one thing at a time and take it easy.

I am so sorry ...I know how you're feeling, a few months ago quite a few bad things were happening in my life and it was one after another, and im still dealing with some of them...there were just moments where everyday it was like UGH i have to start my day with this reality. I just felt like things weren't going to get better and why did all this have to happen during my wedding planning, its supposed to be a happy time.

It does S*ck im not gonna lie, it is not easy at times, but things do eventually get better. And ive noticed when you have alot of bad things in your life alot of good things are to come in the future. just hang in there in the meantime

..... the reminder that this situation won't last forever is very comforting. thank you girls for taking the time to read and post ..... you have no idea how much i appreciate that