I am seriously holding back tears right now.... We are less than two weeks from the wedding and I have been stressing like crazy trying to get everything done and figuring out how we are paying for everything. THEN..... we have a blockage in one of our pipes and had to call a plumber. It is costing $350 to fix it!!!!!!! FH is blaming me for it because he was gone at his bachelor party all weekend. But, I didn't do anything other than what I normally do...shower and use the toilet. I don't think that could have really been the problem!!!
UGH, just needed to get all of that out. There goes more money on my credit card that I can't pay off!! I am in debt up to my eye balls because of this stupid wedding!
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i'm sorry this is happening.
wilmetted
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I am so sorry to hear that. I am sure things will get better. Just look at it as the one most important day of your life. It will all be worth it in the end.
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Just breathe & relax. There's no way you ruined the pipes in one weekend But seriously, things will be better after the wedding since you won't be spending every extra dollar you have on wedding vendors & whatnot. You'll be able to focus on paying off the credit cards then !! Don't worry.....it happens to everyone. We need to replace our sewer line cause our beautiful tree is eating away at it. The guy said the job is going to 'be costly' so I just pray we can make it until after the wedding without any problems. Don't stress too much & enjoy ! Good Luck to you !!
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Im sorry. I think we all know how you feel. Money is a very stressful thing in everyones relationship. Just take it one day at a time and you guys will be just fine.
(and kick FH in the butt for trying to blame a plumbing problem on you!)
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I'm sorry that happened!!! Your FH is funny thinking it was something you did (that is so something my FH would say 'what did you put in there??' lol.....yeah I keep forgetting, I'm the only one who ever uses the toilet lol!!!)......well it stinks that you had to put $350 on your card, but at least it happened now and not the week of the wedding (b/c I'm sure you have better things to do than play with your plumbing then). But at least by the time you get your next credit card statement, you should have your wedding gifts so maybe you can pay it off? I'm just trying to find the positive!!! Here's some hugs
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I am so sorry you have to deal with this.
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I'm sorry to hear that!!
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This too shall pass! And youll have an amazing wedding day. Sorry!!
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Feel better.
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Oh man..I am so sorry that this is happening to you, especially so close to the wedding...I hope everything works out alright.
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sorrry to hears tis, it will get better....
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Im sorry you have to deal with this, especially so close to your wedding.
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Ugh! That s uc ks!! I'm so sorry that this is happening so close to your big day! I am sure FH is just stressed about the money like you are, so that is why he is blaming you. Here are some hugs sweetie!
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Ohhh! that stinks! Hang in there!!!
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Stuff happens, so don't stress about it. You can't control it, so don't let it control you !
You've got enough on your mind right now with the wedding coming up.
