So my sister (MOH) just informed me that she has no intentions on covering up tattoos for my wedding. She says that when you pick bridesmaids, you know what you're getting...and that me suggesting that I would make her cover a tattoo is bridezillaish...
SHE HASN'T GOTTEN A TATTOO YET!!!! She has none, so her point about knowing the person, yadayada is invalid! She's planning on getting one tomorrow. I'm really sad because when she got married, I did nothing to upset her. If she told me something, I followed it. I told her it would be like me dying my hair for her wedding, to which she replied, 'I wouldn't have cared.' The thing is...she totally would've and there's nothing I can do about it now.
Then she added that she's going to have at least 2 by my wedding!
JillandJoe
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if she doesn't have one now she should wait til after ur wedding...id be pissed!!
JAAMS
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Posted by iHeartMoogle
Please let me clarify ladies --
I am not necessarily upset about the fact that there will be a tattoo...I just did not like the way she handled the situation. I was her MOH and I jumped through hoops for her because she is my sister and my best friend. She was super bridezilla towards the end because she got into 2 car accidents (each on the night of a bachelorette party...we had 2), broke her camera, and had many other unfortunate things happen to her. Each time, I did whatever I could to make it better. I was expressing my opinion to her today and she was like, 'don't you think you're being bridezillaish?'
I'm more upset by that. I hoped that she would be nothing but supportive. If she told me to shave my head for her wedding so she'd look better, I would've done it.
Ah I gotcha I think, so you're upset about the attitude not the action right? I think?
In that case, just give it a few days so you're both stepped away from the situation for awhile. Go out to lunch/coffee/din and express how her response is making you feel.
