Tell me I'm just crazy... please...

OK so I know I have a long way to go before this is an issue, but I'm literally getting anxiety sick about it already.

The bachelor party lap dances and strippers and boobs

I know it's all my own insecurity and I totally trust my FH but part of me wants to ask if he would be ok with me getting naked and dry humping a random stranger ..

I've already had nightmares about this.

Is anyone else freaked out about this in the least? I don't want to ask him not to do it, I don't want to be that girl.