so when we bought my ring and started this disaster I really wanted a purple sapphire instead of a diamond. its more me. he hated it and bought a diamond.
since my setting is all messed up and we ordered 2 new ones, my diamond is all wrapped up in a baggie. the jeweler said we could return that and get what i wanted bc of all the problems.
so...what would you do?
ImgonnabeMrsC
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Posted by DCgirl82
Honestly you are wearing it so you should get what YOU like <3
ITA
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fdnybride163
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Posted by RandEWedding2011
I am prob gonna get some flax for this but I kinda feel like its up to him to pick it out. Mabey I am to traditional in that sense but I feel liike he is giving me this ring to me as his promise of commitment. If he took the time to pick one out he felt is special and beautiful I wouldn' t wanna change it. My ring is pretty, not really my style, but knowing he choose it for me with such special intentions makess it sooooo beautiful!
I agree that the man should pick it out, but in the same sense he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, he should know you inside and out and should know what you like and what you dont like.
My friend got a blue saphire with two small diamonds around the larger stone, and her band was alternating saphire and diamond. Its gorgeous and she loves it. and she picked out ideas but he was the one who actually put it together. So i think there should be a compromise of what he likes,and you like.
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my best friend is totally anti diamond so her fiance bought her a white sapphire instead
i have another friend that got a pink sapphire
it's totally normal, you're not crazy
just be honest with him and tell him what you want instead. might actually save some $$?
MLHtobe424
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Get what you want! You're wearing the ring! Personally I like it when people are out of the box!
