It's happening tomorrow, we only see each other on Friday and Saturday
Kimmypie143
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Oh no what talk? Did I miss somthing?
T E R I
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Oh no what talk? Did I miss somthing?
FH is freaking out about money for the wedding, with rennovating the house, he doesn't know if we can afford the wedding, so tomorrow night we are going to have a talk about it
Kimmypie143
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Oh no what talk? Did I miss somthing?
FH is freaking out about money for the wedding, with rennovating the house, he doesn't know if we can afford the wedding, so tomorrow night we are going to have a talk about it
Oh I gotcha. Fh is the same way. Everyday he freaks out about not having enough $ for the wedding. But yet its ok to go out to dinner and go out with friends all the time Ugh or just spends $ on whatever. Its so frustrating
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oh no :( you guys should register at lowes for stuff to help you with the house
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oh no :( you guys should register at lowes for stuff to help you with the house
I want to do that, but we need all the house stuff done now, so that we can move in soon, and FH is sooo impatient so he won't wait for that stuff to get done-its just very annoying
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oh no :( you guys should register at lowes for stuff to help you with the house
I want to do that, but we need all the house stuff done now, so that we can move in soon, and FH is sooo impatient so he won't wait for that stuff to get done-its just very annoying
I hear ya. Its not easy. Is there anything for the house that you need that can be second hand? Maybe we can help
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Posted by CloudNine
oh no :( you guys should register at lowes for stuff to help you with the house
I want to do that, but we need all the house stuff done now, so that we can move in soon, and FH is sooo impatient so he won't wait for that stuff to get done-its just very annoying
I hear ya. Its not easy. Is there anything for the house that you need that can be second hand? Maybe we can help
Right now he's freaking out, because we are completely redoing the kitchen so brand new everything in the kitchen and then he had to put up new sheet rock all over the downstairs. Then we had to upgrade the electric. So he is completely freaking, he didn't think it was going to be this much, he didn't want to listen to me
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oh no :( you guys should register at lowes for stuff to help you with the house
I want to do that, but we need all the house stuff done now, so that we can move in soon, and FH is sooo impatient so he won't wait for that stuff to get done-its just very annoying
I hear ya. Its not easy. Is there anything for the house that you need that can be second hand? Maybe we can help
Right now he's freaking out, because we are completely redoing the kitchen so brand new everything in the kitchen and then he had to put up new sheet rock all over the downstairs. Then we had to upgrade the electric. So he is completely freaking, he didn't think it was going to be this much, he didn't want to listen to me
Ugh thats my biggest fear. Well if you need any help Fh is very handy im sure he can help you guys no problem if yo need
stinenandy2010
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if you have to give up the wedding, tell him to sell the race car...i'm sure that will change his tune!
christine2010
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obviously kitchen & electric are two big expenses. maybe you should hold off on doing other upgrades for a little while. just do the most important right now.
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if you have to give up the wedding, tell him to sell the race car...i'm sure that will change his tune!
I can't even use that against him, he's not going to be racing a full season this year, he is only going to do 5 races-if that, he might actually sell the car
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oh no :( you guys should register at lowes for stuff to help you with the house
I want to do that, but we need all the house stuff done now, so that we can move in soon, and FH is sooo impatient so he won't wait for that stuff to get done-its just very annoying
I hear ya. Its not easy. Is there anything for the house that you need that can be second hand? Maybe we can help
Right now he's freaking out, because we are completely redoing the kitchen so brand new everything in the kitchen and then he had to put up new sheet rock all over the downstairs. Then we had to upgrade the electric. So he is completely freaking, he didn't think it was going to be this much, he didn't want to listen to me
Ugh thats my biggest fear. Well if you need any help Fh is very handy im sure he can help you guys no problem if yo need
FH is handy too!!! Shawn used to do plumbing work and he is good with electric and all that other junk like that! He cant lift much right now but he is handy!!
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is the house not livable? if its livable then do it little by little...wait til after the wedding...from the pics it looked ok. if you rush everything you are gonna go poor
Kimmypie143
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I agree with Jackie. But still if you need out help or our fh's help you got it all you have to do is ask!
stinenandy2010
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teri - also as we look at houses we are obviously looking at what needs to be done asap. the house we are seriously considering needs a new kitchen but as my mother put it we don't need to put in a $30,000 kitchen, we can just go to ikea and get something really nice for the time being.
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teri - also as we look at houses we are obviously looking at what needs to be done asap. the house we are seriously considering needs a new kitchen but as my mother put it we don't need to put in a $30,000 kitchen, we can just go to ikea and get something really nice for the time being.
My mother suggested the same thing to me when I bought my house. It took me a good year to a year and a half to finish furnishing it and a lot of furniture and stuff are hand me downs. Gotta save up money and conserve somehow
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is the house not livable? if its livable then do it little by little...wait til after the wedding...from the pics it looked ok. if you rush everything you are gonna go poor
As of now, the house is not liveable, we have knocked down walls and we are moving the kitchen, so there is no kitchen at all, we ripped out the old one and there is no bedroom because that is where the old kitchen was
Kimmypie143
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is the house not livable? if its livable then do it little by little...wait til after the wedding...from the pics it looked ok. if you rush everything you are gonna go poor
As of now, the house is not liveable, we have knocked down walls and we are moving the kitchen, so there is no kitchen at all, we ripped out the old one and there is no bedroom because that is where the old kitchen was
Wow big project. Dont worry it will get done everything will be fine