Terrible FSIL (Vent)

Well I have posted on here before about her, and she is at it again!

FSIL is pregnant (due in June) and I am not invited to her baby shower....she is invited to my wedding shower, even though we don't get along....it is just the right thing to do!

Honestly, I wouldn't want to go to it, but if I was invited, I would go!

She drives me crazy!

Just needed to vent a bit!

Uch..it's so unfortunate that those people come along with the ones we love.

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Posted by Goldi1021

She sounds like a real treat.

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Oh believe me...she is!

She got married to FH's brother last July and she has already received an upgrade on her e-ring (she was furious that mine was bigger than hers...she is super immature!)

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Posted by Jamie&MarkSept.'05

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Posted by Goldi1021

She sounds like a real treat.

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Oh believe me...she is!

She got married to FH's brother last July and she has already received an upgrade on her e-ring (she was furious that mine was bigger than hers...she is super immature!)

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She sounds like my paternal grandmother. When she found out my moms ring was bigger, she made my grandpa get her a bigger one.

Wow...you'd think that jealous immature stuff would end with elementary school.

Sorry you have to go through this. Just remember you are the bigger person in all this.

Oh brother! Sorry you have to deal with such ugliness.

I wouldn't let someone like that get to you.

If I were in your sitiuation I would probably find out where she was registered at and send a gift at home so she could never say I didn't get her anything. Just be the bigger of the two.
Sorry to hear you have to go through this but I would let it get to you.


WE HAVE A WEDDING TO PLAN!!!!

Thats terrible

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Posted by roe

I wouldn't let someone like that get to you.

If I were in your sitiuation I would probably find out where she was registered at and send a gift at home so she could never say I didn't get her anything. Just be the bigger of the two.
Sorry to hear you have to go through this but I would let it get to you.


WE HAVE A WEDDING TO PLAN!!!!

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very well said...that would be such a big thing to do by getting her a gift..is your fh close to his brother..? i think its a shame that you guys are going to be family..people like her make it hard for family functions...how old is she? sounds very young or just very immature anyway..well good luck..

I feel so bad, that is just so wrong. By not inviting you, it's just opening a road to disaster, whether you get along or not, you're going to be family.

Do you think they didn't send you an invitation b/c it's a given you're going? I know that sounds crazy, but just a thought?

Is she in your wedding party?

I know how you are feeling, I am in the same boat with my FSIL. She is a true devil.
I am sorry you are going through this.
Have you spoken to your FH about it?

what B$&%$ !!
i would go.

I'm sorry, but do we share a FSIL? This girl sounds a lot like my nightmare of a FSIL.
I would send a gift but make sure your FMIL knows that you weren't invited, it's not that you just didn't attend.

sounds like a total b*%$h!!

also- doesn't anyone set her straight?? not that you would even WANT to go to her shower, but won't people wonder where you are??

some people are unbelievable

Jamie- did you just hit 1000???

Congrats

see, all this bi&%#ing pays off- now you'll get a tshirt

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Posted by Jamie&MarkSept.'05

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Posted by Goldi1021

She sounds like a real treat.

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Oh believe me...she is!

She got married to FH's brother last July and she has already received an upgrade on her e-ring (she was furious that mine was bigger than hers...she is super immature!)

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First off, Hi Jamie! Hope all is going well aside from this!

She sounds like my SIL. Married to my brother, demanded a larger ring once she saw my e-ring (she's an a$$), has critized everything she could about my wedding (hence why I'm not giving her details or speaking to her) and made sure my brother does not come to the wedding. IN all, a real nightmare.

But you know what, it's not about her...it's about you and Mark. So ignore her skanky as$, take the high road and don't change who you are. It's great that you invited her to your shower...the fact that she didn't invite you to hers just means she's not adult enough and can't deal with her insecurities. Lucky for you that's her issue, not yours.

Keep planning the wedding of your dreams, let her be the ugly person inside she is and don't worry...everyone surely sees it too, it's not just you.


Phew, sorry that was a book long!

I can't believe some people!! How rude!!!! Def send her a gift just to make her feel stupid, and you'll still be the bigger person. She's so immature needing a bigger ring, ridiculous! Feel good about yourself for not being like her. Btw, congrats on hitting the big 1K!!!