Would u send one to a BM who didn't give a card or gift for the wedding and aside from showing up, did absolutely nothing to help; did not attend or RSVP for shower or send shower gift; has not asked about HM and/ or called even 1X since the wedding?
If u would send one....what the heck would it say? Thanks for coming?
RadiantBride
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Uughhh i have a couple of those, I am still sending one, my cards had a writing so let them deal with feeling bad for not getting me a gift lol. Most of them at least contributed to the shower and BP so that was enough for me.
08JulyBride
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I would send a generic thank you for being part of our special day.
LuvMyAlfonse
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I'd send one..
Thank you so much for being a part of our special day.
I can only hope that you have someone as great as you were, be a part of YOUR day.
Dee0522
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You should definitely send one... but just make it very generic and simple. Thank you for coming and sharing in our special day. Nothing fancy!
lila
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yes, but i might wait a little longer before sending that. 3 of our 5 groomsmen were the same way, all acknowledged that they didnt give a gift or card and made it seem like one would eventually come.
dont really believe that it will, but i'm going to wait until the 3 month mark before writing theirs. i had the rest out within one month
jaep129
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I would. I had people like that in in their thank you card all I wrote was Thank you, Nicholas and Jessica.
jonsgirl04
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DID we have the same bridesmaid?? LOL Yeah I wasnt sure what to do either. How can I say thank you to someone that only showed up, left before dinner, and I had to pay for her hair/ dress alterations????
bluekat16
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Posted by 08JulyBride
I would send a generic thank you for being part of our special day.
Ditto
jessnstu08
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I wasn't planning on sending thank you's to the few people who did not give a gift or card.
BUT i like some of the idea's other brides have posted about how to respond to these people without sending nothing.
thanks girls * but my question is what am I thanking them for exactly ? they didnt do anything
Kerin2804
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Be the bigger person. It is proper. Keep it simple. Thank you for being part of our day.
