Thank you question...

I received a 'no' RSVP with a check (yay!) from a co-worker. I have 3.5 weeks til the wedding (insert here!), so should I send the thank you now on my personal stationery or wait til after the wedding when we have our official thank you cards to send? (since it's not like with a regular guest who sends a gift before the wedding where I could send 2 -- one for the gift, one to thank them for coming). Thanks!

we still didnt do our TYs yet BUT we're sending all of them out together (including the No's that sent gifts).... we still wanted to send them the 'official' TY with the picture and all

For any no reply with a check I have already sent a thank you on my personal stationary and then I deposited the check.
Lisa
ETS: For any reply with gift whether it was engagement/bridal shower/wedding yes or wedding no, I have already sent a thank you note. I will send picture thank you notes after the wedding to those that sent wedding presents (only wedding presents qualify)regardless of whether they attended or not.

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Posted by lrs2005

For any no reply with a check I have already sent a thank you on my personal stationary and then I deposited the check.
Lisa
ETS: For any reply with gift whether it was engagement/bridal shower/wedding yes or wedding no, I have already sent a thank you note. I will send picture thank you notes after the wedding to those that sent wedding presents (only wedding presents qualify)regardless of whether they attended or not.

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So, what do you say with the 2nd picture thank you? I figured, I'd send one before & after for those who attended, saying 'Thanks so much for sharing our day with us.' What do you say for someone who wasn't there to 'share'? Thanks again@@

Humm, good question.

Dear Already gave us a present,

We are enjoying using XXX in our new home. It goes perfectly with our decor. We will certainly put XXX to good use/ We will enjoy using XXX on special occasions for many years to come.

or

Thank you so much for your generous/thoughtful gift, we are putting it towards XXX or have spent it on the wedding/HM. [We are using your generous/thoughtful/kind gift towards the purchase of XXX.] We cannot wait for you to see XXX.

next sentence for either of the above

We were so sorry that you were unable to share in the festivities at our wedding but thought that you would enjoy a copy of our wedding portrait/photo.

Love/Fondly/Sincerely/truly
DH and Jenniesunshine

How is that?
Lisa

Great!! Thanks Lisa

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Posted by neeniebean86

we still didnt do our TYs yet BUT we're sending all of them out together (including the No's that sent gifts).... we still wanted to send them the 'official' TY with the picture and all

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That is exactly what I am doing too.

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Posted by diamondgrlie

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Posted by neeniebean86

we still didnt do our TYs yet BUT we're sending all of them out together (including the No's that sent gifts).... we still wanted to send them the 'official' TY with the picture and all

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That is exactly what I am doing too.

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me three

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Posted by neeniebean86

we still didnt do our TYs yet BUT we're sending all of them out together (including the No's that sent gifts).... we still wanted to send them the 'official' TY with the picture and all

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Did the same thing.

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Posted by hmm8191

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Posted by diamondgrlie

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Posted by neeniebean86

we still didnt do our TYs yet BUT we're sending all of them out together (including the No's that sent gifts).... we still wanted to send them the 'official' TY with the picture and all

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That is exactly what I am doing too.

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me three

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me 4