The 1 thing that ***** about this site...

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Posted by MISSESPINK722

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Ugh Its not even worth it... Even when I tried to be sincere, they still thought I was being nasty, sarcastic, etc so I gave up... Dont bother... I was such redic drama

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I just read the thread and saw it was about 9/11 and i personally knew more then 1 person who passed away that day so im not going to comment on it, subject is too touchy.

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It def is... I got a headache from it all

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Posted by tinadansr

mazz did you start trouble hehehehe....everyone needs alittle drama life would be boring otherwise

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Noooo I just tried to share an honest opinion on a touchy subject lol ... I really didnt think it was gonna get THAT out of hand

that's so true.
it makes me crazy sometimes.

you have a good point. i think that people get very sensative ESPECIALLY on the internet. you can only read the words, you can't hear the tone and you don't know the person it's coming from. so i think things get misconstrued and people take things the wrong way.

i just try to be open and if i read something i think sounds offensive to me personally, i try to realize that the person probably didn't mean it the way i'm taking it and i let it go.

i wish we could all do that...but with the amount of ladies on this site, it's easy for things to get out of control and for feelings to get hurt.

i think all of you girls on here are awesome though...that goes for all of the boards. i hope the drama calms down a little. we are all on here for the same reason, and we should be supportive of each other and remember that people don't always type things the way they really mean them.

to all of you girls!!

There was 13 pages of drama on another board. It was ridiculous. One thing I am passionate about is having the freedom and ability to say what you want.

I may not agree with it, but I will fight for your right to express it. No one is better than another to put down their opinion.

Mazz, I don't know what thread that was, but rest assured you have nothing to apologize for. People can be too damn sensitive and forget sometimes that even on a LIW board, we can all agree to disagree sometimes.

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Posted by angl2001

yeah....sometimes these borads get out of hand because people say things the wrong way...if u dont like a thread dont reply to it thats all! lol trust me girls...you will have drama on your boards lol wether its small or a big deal it will happen. We are women ...its inevitable lol. Everyong should remember its a public forum and you can say whatever you want!! dont walk on eggshells around anyone!

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Its the exact reason why most of my friends are guys...

lol i hear ya!! my only girl friends are the ones in my BP lol....
sorry to crash your board but i just needed to say that before lol.
It ***** that so many people dont speak their minds on these boards , afraid of what other will say...but ya know what...except for maybe a handful after out weddings....we will prob never talk to any of these people again!! so who cares what they think?

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Posted by angl2001

lol i hear ya!! my only girl friends are the ones in my BP lol....
sorry to crash your board but i just needed to say that before lol.
It ***** that so many people dont speak their minds on these boards , afraid of what other will say...but ya know what...except for maybe a handful after out weddings....we will prob never talk to any of these people again!! so who cares what they think?

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yep... exactly... and I was gonna write that it one of my posts on the infamous thread, but honestly didnt feel like arguing back n forth anymore

lol better off with some of them!!
have a good night

I missed all the drama tonight thank god. Dont know what you said but yeah with so many different opinions, people with different lifestyles and views its bound to happen. I remember when the 08 girls used to say 'NO DRAMA' when one thing occured a while ago and said we dont like drama on our boards so not to bring it there WOW we really jinxed ourselves huh

Honestly you cant win, its funny bc people will say if you dont like something then dont post but at the same time everyone also says you have a right to post your opinion if you think something is wrong or express your views if you disagree, so i dont get how anyone is supposed to do both

Personally, i keep my mouth shut when it comes to certain things. Someone has different taste than me then im not going to comment bc who is to say who is right or wrong. I do say things when at times I think someone said something rude, which i obviously did yesterday and it turned into drama. But i also never put anyone down, i just call ppl on it when they put someone down. Also i am a person i can debate with somebody, i do accept others having a different opinion, i can carry a conversation and express how i feel about it, and they can express how they feel. I respect a person who can have a normal debate and who will make their points even if it is different than mine BUT on here its hard to do, people get very sensitive if you disagree with them and instead of having a normal debate it turns into OMG why are ppl attacking me go away, what is wrong with ppl or personally attack you. I have debates with loved ones, doesnt mean i hate them or out to attack them but just bc i like you doesnt mean i have to agree with you or keep my opinions to myself, we can have a conversation and move on.

After yesterday i dont even care anymore, ppl want to be rude go right ahead the way i say it is dont dish it if you cant take it which is the reality with ALOT of ppl, on here or otherwise.

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Posted by Espo22

I missed all the drama tonight thank god. Dont know what you said but yeah with so many different opinions, people with different lifestyles and views its bound to happen. I remember when the 08 girls used to say 'NO DRAMA' when one thing occured a while ago and said we dont like drama on our boards so not to bring it there WOW we really jinxed ourselves huh

Honestly you cant win, its funny bc people will say if you dont like something then dont post but at the same time everyone also says you have a right to post your opinion if you think something is wrong or express your views if you disagree, so i dont get how anyone is supposed to do both

Personally, i keep my mouth shut when it comes to certain things. Someone has different taste than me then im not going to comment bc who is to say who is right or wrong. I do say things when at times I think someone said something rude, which i obviously did yesterday and it turned into drama. But i also never put anyone down, i just call ppl on it when they put someone down. Also i am a person i can debate with somebody, i do accept others having a different opinion, i can carry a conversation and express how i feel about it, and they can express how they feel. I respect a person who can have a normal debate and who will make their points even if it is different than mine BUT on here its hard to do, people get very sensitive if you disagree with them and instead of having a normal debate it turns into OMG why are ppl attacking me go away, what is wrong with ppl or personally attack you. I have debates with loved ones, doesnt mean i hate them or out to attack them but just bc i like you doesnt mean i have to agree with you or keep my opinions to myself, we can have a conversation and move on.

After yesterday i dont even care anymore, ppl want to be rude go right ahead the way i say it is dont dish it if you cant take it which is the reality with ALOT of ppl, on here or otherwise.

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Im glad I missed it too. Whenever someone posts something I dont agree with I just keep quiet cuz I know it may start something. I dont have the time r patience to be fighting with someone online.

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Posted by Soon2bmrsP

I know.... a lot of times I want to comment on things but, I dont because I just would rather go on with my life and avoid the drama than have somebody get me upset. I know if I say something contrary to what the other people have posted I'm going to have to spend an hour defending my opinion and I just dont have time for it.

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yeah but see thats ridiculous that you would have to defend having a different opinion ya know...Listen its wrong to bash someone or put someone down...BUt were talking about having different views on things. I mean its ok for ppl to disagree and stay civilized and just express their own views and have an intelligent debate ya know. I mean do ppl live in a world where everyone has the same views on everything. I mean its like HELLO its the real world out there and not everything will go your way and not everyone will agree with everything you say, handle it like an adult

Not saying it to you lol, just agreeing with what you're saying

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Posted by Espo22

I missed all the drama tonight thank god.

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I am pretty sure the thread was about the ring thread on our board lol there is one on NYC weddings too lol

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Posted by angl2001

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Posted by Espo22

I missed all the drama tonight thank god.

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I am pretty sure the thread was about the ring thread on our board lol there is one on NYC weddings too lol

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I missed all what happened!! I guess I have to catch up...I hate drama!

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Posted by Espo22

I missed all the drama tonight thank god. Dont know what you said but yeah with so many different opinions, people with different lifestyles and views its bound to happen. I remember when the 08 girls used to say 'NO DRAMA' when one thing occured a while ago and said we dont like drama on our boards so not to bring it there WOW we really jinxed ourselves huh

Honestly you cant win, its funny bc people will say if you dont like something then dont post but at the same time everyone also says you have a right to post your opinion if you think something is wrong or express your views if you disagree, so i dont get how anyone is supposed to do both

Personally, i keep my mouth shut when it comes to certain things. Someone has different taste than me then im not going to comment bc who is to say who is right or wrong. I do say things when at times I think someone said something rude, which i obviously did yesterday and it turned into drama. But i also never put anyone down, i just call ppl on it when they put someone down. Also i am a person i can debate with somebody, i do accept others having a different opinion, i can carry a conversation and express how i feel about it, and they can express how they feel. I respect a person who can have a normal debate and who will make their points even if it is different than mine BUT on here its hard to do, people get very sensitive if you disagree with them and instead of having a normal debate it turns into OMG why are ppl attacking me go away, what is wrong with ppl or personally attack you. I have debates with loved ones, doesnt mean i hate them or out to attack them but just bc i like you doesnt mean i have to agree with you or keep my opinions to myself, we can have a conversation and move on.

After yesterday i dont even care anymore, ppl want to be rude go right ahead the way i say it is dont dish it if you cant take it which is the reality with ALOT of ppl, on here or otherwise.

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Amen, sister!

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Posted by angl2001

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Posted by Espo22

I missed all the drama tonight thank god.

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I am pretty sure the thread was about the ring thread on our board lol there is one on NYC weddings too lol

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oh was it, i didnt know what happened lol i was gone and heard there was more drama, wasnt sure if it was about the same thing lol but should've figured, just glad i wasnt there for that one