The 1 thing that ***** about this site...

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by angl2001

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Posted by Espo22

I missed all the drama tonight thank god.

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I am pretty sure the thread was about the ring thread on our board lol there is one on NYC weddings too lol

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oh was it, i didnt know what happened lol i was gone and heard there was more drama, wasnt sure if it was about the same thing lol but should've figured, just glad i wasnt there for that one

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i think it's about another thread reffering to 9-11 and I agree with you espo, people really shouldn't get so upset or defensive if you dont agree with what they say

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Posted by Espo22

I missed all the drama tonight thank god. Dont know what you said but yeah with so many different opinions, people with different lifestyles and views its bound to happen. I remember when the 08 girls used to say 'NO DRAMA' when one thing occured a while ago and said we dont like drama on our boards so not to bring it there WOW we really jinxed ourselves huh

Honestly you cant win, its funny bc people will say if you dont like something then dont post but at the same time everyone also says you have a right to post your opinion if you think something is wrong or express your views if you disagree, so i dont get how anyone is supposed to do both

Personally, i keep my mouth shut when it comes to certain things. Someone has different taste than me then im not going to comment bc who is to say who is right or wrong. I do say things when at times I think someone said something rude, which i obviously did yesterday and it turned into drama. But i also never put anyone down, i just call ppl on it when they put someone down. Also i am a person i can debate with somebody, i do accept others having a different opinion, i can carry a conversation and express how i feel about it, and they can express how they feel. I respect a person who can have a normal debate and who will make their points even if it is different than mine BUT on here its hard to do, people get very sensitive if you disagree with them and instead of having a normal debate it turns into OMG why are ppl attacking me go away, what is wrong with ppl or personally attack you. I have debates with loved ones, doesnt mean i hate them or out to attack them but just bc i like you doesnt mean i have to agree with you or keep my opinions to myself, we can have a conversation and move on.

After yesterday i dont even care anymore, ppl want to be rude go right ahead the way i say it is dont dish it if you cant take it which is the reality with ALOT of ppl, on here or otherwise.

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espo i think we are totally on the same page when it comes to this stuff....

the 08 boards kind of scare me - which suxs b/c i am sometimes afraid to post an honest opinion....i am the type of person who can go back and forth without getting mad or angry - and i also think im the type of person that can almost always see both sides to a story no matter what.....but on the 08 boards it seems like once there is a disagreement it automatically equals drama....and i think that people instigate (and it may not be on purpose) so it blows up real fast....its like nobody is allowed to disagree on those boards or have a different view or opinion - which kind of sux......but i still enjoy posting, and getting and sharing ideas <3

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Posted by Future Mulligan]


espo i think we are totally on the same page when it comes to this stuff....

the 08 boards kind of scare me - which suxs b/c i am sometimes afraid to post an honest opinion....i am the type of person who can go back and forth without getting mad or angry - and i also think im the type of person that can almost always see both sides to a story no matter what.....but on the 08 boards it seems like once there is a disagreement it automatically equals drama....and i think that people instigate (and it may not be on purpose) so it blows up real fast....its like nobody is allowed to disagree on those boards or have a different view or opinion - which kind of sux......but i still enjoy posting, and getting and sharing ideas <3

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You shulnt have to curb what you say if someone wants to post something nasty or sarcastic so what?? its a public forum...if i dont like a thread usually i dont reply...but when somone says something nasty or uncalled for...then i do lol
You shouldnt have to walk on eggshells.....post whatever you want!

Don't let that one thread discourage you from speaking your mind. It's a public forum. If someone is sensitive about the subject matter, they should stay off the thread. It's not your problem to make sure that your opinion doesn't upset one single person... if you did then you would never post anything!