THE BACHELOR!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wendy, you said everything I was thinking.

I'll add...... Mary is going to have men crawling all over her wanting to marry her and give her babies.
Not only is she gorgeous, but she's a class act and IMO too good for Bob anyway.

I don't think Bob is ready for marriage or babies. It's good that he let her go last night.

But what UPSET me was that he KNEW he wasn't going to pick her for that reason, yet he still USED her as much as he could, groping his nasty hands all over her, kissing her and who knows what else. Why does he have to be such a dog about it? She didn't deserve that. She thought he was into her as much as she was into him b/c of HIS actions. And that's what's not fair.

I don't know who he picks, but after watching the show I think she'll have serious issues with his doggish behavior.

With that said, I did notice a certain 'look' in his eyes with Estella last night, and that made me wonder if she's not the one he picks instead of Kelly Jo.
Oh well, we'll know in 2 weeks.

Whoever he picks, I don't think it will last, b/c I don't think Bob is very sincere at all.
OK -my tangent is over

Sassy..your picture is the cutest thing!!!!

You guys are right on the money..

As some of you know, Mary's uncle is married to my aunt, making her my 'cousin' which I didn't know until the show began lol My mom has been watching this show religiously and she had no idea that Mary was on, even when my parents were down there in FL, she said nothing to them about it.

BUT ANYWAYS, to my point..

she is truly a sweet girl and deserves an awesome guy.. ie, not Bob.. I think that if she really knew how Bob was with the other girls on the show, she wouldn't have fallen so hard.. I just hope that hte one good thing to come out from this experience is her finding herself a man who truly deserves her..

no offence MB ( I know you do't know her)...but I wasn't really into Mary...she was a little marriage and baby obsessed...I think that can turn off anyone...


I picked KJ on the first show and I think its going to be her...

how many people think that Bob and KJ had sex? I won't say that I am 100% sure...but maybe 75%


I can't wait to see the ladies with LeeAnn next week...this is probably the first time I am looking foward to the 'women tell all'

I also think he slept with all of them!!!
He's so gross....

Sometimes I wonder how everyone on the show always falls in love with the bachelor/bachelorette. Would they fall in love with just anyone just because they are 'The Bachelor/ette'?? I'm dying for someone to say, 'You know what? This person is really not my type and I can't seem myself falling for him/her'!!

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Posted by DKA1026

I also think he slept with all of them!!!
He's so gross....

Sometimes I wonder how everyone on the show always falls in love with the bachelor/bachelorette. Would they fall in love with just anyone just because they are 'The Bachelor/ette'?? I'm dying for someone to say, 'You know what? This person is really not my type and I can't seem myself falling for him/her'!!

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I think that 15 girls are dying over him...makes him a bit more 'attractive'

but I think since most of the bachelors are well off...not many would say no right away

LOL DKA

Thanks aliciahelene

Ya know what really kills me, guys? When they all act and talk like his is the love of their lives! Please! They know him for 2 week! You can have a crush on someone you know for two weeks, you can certainly be infatuated with that person, but you can't love them!!! Love goes much deeper than that!

So, when one of them goes: 'oh, he was the love of my life and now it's over' or something like that, I am just thinking, please, stop the nonsense and take some yoga classes or something!

May be they are told to say certain things!

Please, the reason they cry when they don't get a rose is the crushed self-esteem, not because they all LOOOVE that dude!

And by the way, I was just telling DH yesterday, I can’t believe that all 3 of them slept with the Bachelor!!! If I knew that there were 2 other women who are probably going to end up in his bed in the next few hours I would never lowered myself being one the 3 lays 'du jour'! I guess they wanted to score extra points for being generous!

OK, getting off my soap box now and going back to work!!

Tho' I wonder, just because they stayed the night doesn't necessarily mean they actually slept with him.
It could've just been some real intense making out, ya never know
So I won't jump to conclusions until I hear it from them


ETA: I still maintain that Bob is a DOG - ruff ruff

I am pretty sure he the did with all 3 of them! or at least REALLY tried to!! He was also increadibly eager to go into the room with each of them! You said it, Sassy, he sure is a DOG!

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Posted by WhatNow?

Ya know what really kills me, guys? When they all act and talk like his is the love of their lives! Please! They know him for 2 week! You can have a crush on someone you know for two weeks, you can certainly be infatuated with that person, but you can't love them!!! Love goes much deeper than that!

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I totally agree...but i think the excitement adds to it as well...


imagine if when you met DH/FH and he wisked you away to somewhere fabulous every week...it would definitely be a more intense relationship...hink Samantha and Richard on SATC

It's true that the excitement adds to it, but how carried away can you get when he's also dating 15 other women??
If our FH/DH's had ever taken us away, it would have been just us!

I agree with everyone that Bob is NOT ALL THAT! I don't find him attractive at all. Pooey!

I definitely think Mary should be the next Bachelorette!

Cindy, I picked up on that whole Estella/Trista thing too!!! I noticed she was talking in that little girly girl voice and everything! Maybe he likes Estella because she reminds him of Trista!! Yeeks!!

I'd still like Kelly Jo to win. Even though she's young, Bob seems a bit immature, so they're a good match. I think she'd also bounce back a lot easier if it didn't work out in the long run.

Now we have to wait TWO weeks to see what happens...

WhatNow? - That cute little dog is MUCH better looking than Bob