THE BACHELOR!!!!!!!!!!!!

jennbaby Posted: Nov 05, 2003 10:02 PM

THE BACHELOR!!!!!!!!!!!!

i am SOOOO happy Estella got a rose

I did feel bad for Mary, but I knew her wanting kids would 'ruin' it.

holly231 Posted: Nov 05, 2003 10:06 PM

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mee too Jenn! Bob is really easy to read...

But Mary wanted kids QUICK because her clock is tickin....I think Bob wants to enjoy his wife first and then have the babies!

kmcwed Posted: Nov 05, 2003 10:07 PM

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I thought the same thing Jen. Mary wants a family right away, and Bob's not sure when he'll be ready. But I think he did the honest thing by not giving her a rose.

Now it's reeeeealy going to be interesting!

It was so sad when Mary left, though...

jennbaby Posted: Nov 05, 2003 10:07 PM

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Bob is prob going to be a sex machine after the show...he probably never had many women and now he thinks he's a stud

endlessluv429 Posted: Nov 05, 2003 10:08 PM

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you're right Jen, Mary wanting kids was her demise. I figured as much and she should've been a little wiser in talking about that so much! I wonder who he will pick--usually we all have some kind of inside info by now!!

jennbaby Posted: Nov 05, 2003 10:10 PM

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I hope it's Estella, but I am guessing it will be Kelly Jo.

At least Mary spoke out, otherwise, they may have broken up later over it.

kmcwed Posted: Nov 05, 2003 10:13 PM

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Posted by endlessluv429

she should've been a little wiser in talking about that so much!

I think it's good that she brought it up. It's such a HUGELY important issue in a marriage. If she kept it to herself and he picked her...what then?

At first I thought I liked Kelly Jo the best, but now I'm really torn between Kelly Jo and Estella.... Glad I'm not BOB!

aliciahelene Posted: Nov 05, 2003 10:21 PM

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Mary is way too cool for BOB. I liked Bob on the bacehlorette, but I really dont see anything special about him lately, hes kinda dorky! just my opinion. I like Kelly Jo and Estelle though, I liked all three..I actually think they could all do better than Bob.

Wendy Posted: Nov 05, 2003 10:22 PM

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I have to agree that Mary was right in letting Bob know that she wanted children fairly soon. It is something that people who are considering getting married should talk about.
They weren't on the same page and I think Bob did the right thing in letting her go, since his plans don't include kids anytime soon.

I think that Mary was as classy as they come when he did not choose her. She didn't cry like a baby and carry on. She accepted his reasons, said nice things about the other ladies and told him that she understood, all while her heart was obviously breaking. Even in the limo she was all class. Truth be told...she is way too good for him!! I am sure that she will find someone who appreciates her and wants the same things Mary does.

Whoever Bob picks I don't think he is going to propose to. I don't think his feelings are as strong as the ladies feelings are. I also don't think they will stay together.

DKA1026 Posted: Nov 05, 2003 10:28 PM

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Am I the only one who's not feeling anything from this Bachelor?? Bob just seems so insincere, like he's in it to have a good time. I don't think he truly cares for any of the women!! I never liked him, even from the previous show. I think he's very phony for some reason.
On the flip side, the women are all very nice. Mary was a class act all the way. I can't believe some great guy hasn't scooped her up yet!!

endlessluv429 Posted: Nov 05, 2003 10:37 PM

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I was just saying that if she wanted to win she could've discussed that later---i see what you guys mean though--NEVERMIND

Stacey1403 Posted: Nov 05, 2003 11:06 PM

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How much you wanna bet Mary is the next bachlorette

I bet Kelly-Jo wins!!!

Cindy Posted: Nov 06, 2003 07:54 AM

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I really liked Mary. I kind of figured if he let her go, it was going to be for the reason he did, like you girls have said. Also, like Aliciahelene said, I dont see what the big deal is with Bob. I think he is a sweet, kind guy, but not great looking. I guess that is what they see, his personality. I think Mary Jo might be too young for him. My vote is for Estelle. I do feel, and I could be wrong that Estelle acts and says things like Trista did. Almost exact. I wonder if she is trying to be like her.....just a thought.

Cindy Posted: Nov 06, 2003 07:55 AM

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Stacy - I thought the same thing as you, that Mary becomes the next bachelorette. They had such luck by selecting someone from the last bacelorette that I amd sure they thought of that idea.

Jess2 Posted: Nov 06, 2003 08:10 AM

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Jen, LOL about Bob becoming a sex machine! I was really surprised, but I knew Mary wasn't going to win, I also think she's too good for him, she's gorgeous. I also think that would be a great idea to make her the next Bachelorette.

stacedz Posted: Nov 06, 2003 08:47 AM

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I really didn't care for Mary until last night when she left, she was really classy at the end! She knew she wanted kids right away and let that be known and you know Bob wasn't ready for that!

I am banking on Kelly Jo and I agree I wouldn't doubt that Mary would be the next Bachelorette!!

firegal Posted: Nov 06, 2003 08:49 AM

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I really liked Mary the best and wanted her to win but I knew that Bob was going to give her the boot last night because of the children issue. The remaining ladies are nice but I'm just not feeling it. Estella (to agree with Cindy) is so TOTALLY acting like Trista with that little girl whispery voice and Kelly Jo I think is WAY too young (23). I think even though she seems mature, they are in 2 different places too.

I really hope Mary is the next bachelorette. She deserves someone amazing in her life because she exuded nothing but class every step of the way.

shelzyp Posted: Nov 06, 2003 09:11 AM

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I have not watched the show this season except for last night, but Mary seemed so much more mature then other ladies asked to leave on the rpevios shows. SHe was upset, but she understood, and if she wanted kids immediatley and he didn't they are not meant to be. I am glad she mentioned it now, so as not to cause contention in the relationshiop at a later point. FInally they picked a girl with maturity to be on this show!!

What-Now Posted: Nov 06, 2003 09:59 AM

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I watched last night for the first time! Mary was a beauty and seemed like a nice and together kind of woman! Oh well... she can do better!

In the long run, it really doesn't matter who he picks and wether or not they are compatable, they will get divorsed in a year or two, if not sooner, anyway!