HAS ANYONE EVER FELT THAT THEIR BRIDESMAIDS HAVE THE GREEN EYED MONSTERS IN THEM.
adioguardi
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I suppose it's very easy for bridesmaids to feel jealous every so often. Although it's an honor to be asked, the position itself can sometimes be demanding and maybe 'servant-like.' If you have BMs that like being the center of attention, this could also create jealousy. I would hope however, that a true bridesmaid, one that wants to stand by you and help you during your special time will control any negative emotions that may stir up in her and do what she needs to do with and for you.
AnniesSS
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From all of the horror stories I've heard about large bridal party issues, I only wanted a MOH and BM and so far it's the best decision I've made yet
Mrs_B
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YUPPPP MORE THAN I EVER CARED TO KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!
JBKempf
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I only have a MOH, BM and Jr BM and its the biggest pain!!! I dont want any!!!!
lishbone
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actually i have had no problems with my bm...i have a very laid back group and i am very lucky.
littlebookworm4
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So far mine have been great but I do still have 7 months left so there's still plenty of time if it's going to happen. but my girls are great friends and I hope that I don't have any horror stories like some I've heard on here. I have 1 family member, 3 are out of state and 3 are here so we'll see how things go.
halfpintny
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Do I even have to justify my YES vote?!?!
italia6973
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I have to say I've heard horror stories, but I can't complain about mine. They've all been great so far.
Bunnymonkey
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I can't complain - some of them have been a little lazy, but overall - they have been incredibly supportive and happy for me.
I think this is a common problem - and one that can usually be resolved. It IS hard for certain types of women to be in someones wedding and have to hear about it all the time. I'm not saying you do this, but I think a good number of brides really only talk about the wedding with their BM's in the time leading up to it...
If you think the jealousy is because you are getting attention and they are not, then go to lunch and talk about anything but the wedding - chances are things will turn around.
Good Luck!
103005FallBride
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Posted by AnniesSS
From all of the horror stories I've heard about large bridal party issues, I only wanted a MOH and BM and so far it's the best decision I've made yet
Same here!
boobobunny
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my cousin had 3 BM's who canceled on her Bachlorette party because the nieghbors cat died.
jesslangen
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So far its gone pretty smoothly. Of course there are bumps in the road but all in all I am thankful for everything they do for me!
