the day would not be complete without a wedding issue.

Soon2bShea Posted: Sep 08, 2011 07:20 PM

the day would not be complete without a wedding issue.

Shame on me for thinking that I ALMOST made it through a day without a wedding-related dilemma/issue.

One of my MOH's texts me (I have 2), to see which of my MOH's will be witnessing our marriage on paper. Great. Now I get to hurt someones feelings!

Yankeeelove Posted: Sep 08, 2011 07:34 PM

Re: the day would not be complete without a wedding issue.

Tell them you will flip a coin(maybe even in front of them) to make your choice. This way you can't hurt anyone's feelings. That's what I would do lol

SoonToBeEMM Posted: Sep 08, 2011 07:40 PM

Re: the day would not be complete without a wedding issue.

hmm i agree with the above poster. I have two MOH's also but one is my sister and one is my best friend that i grew up with since 1st grade. I am having my sister witness but my BF totally understands.

meghan13 Posted: Sep 08, 2011 07:55 PM

Re: the day would not be complete without a wedding issue.

we had two best men and my deacon just picked one - not us.

justnicethings Posted: Sep 08, 2011 09:00 PM

Re: the day would not be complete without a wedding issue.

that is SUCH a silly question for her to ask! was she looking for trouble!? ugh.

the above suggestion is great. hopefully you're into it!

leesah85 Posted: Sep 08, 2011 09:04 PM

Re: the day would not be complete without a wedding issue.

Posted by Yankeeelove

Tell them you will flip a coin(maybe even in front of them) to make your choice. This way you can't hurt anyone's feelings. That's what I would do lol

this is what im going to have to do both my MOHs are my sisters

Yankeeelove Posted: Sep 08, 2011 09:33 PM

Re: the day would not be complete without a wedding issue.

Posted by leesah85

Posted by Yankeeelove

Tell them you will flip a coin(maybe even in front of them) to make your choice. This way you can't hurt anyone's feelings. That's what I would do lol

this is what im going to have to do both my MOHs are my sisters

LOL I totally takes the pressure of you, AND no one can get mad at you. It's a win win!

jovigirl414 Posted: Sep 08, 2011 11:19 PM

Re: the day would not be complete without a wedding issue.

Coin flip is an awesome idea! Or you can make them do Rock Paper Scissors for it - so they only have themselves to blame if they lose! I also like the idea of the pastor choosing - whatever takes the pressure off you is best!!