The EX radar has proven effective yet again... Mine decided to bombard me with texts last night about how he is just 'not over me' and 'can't move on' yadda yadda bite me.
A little background, we were really great friends then dated, we were crazy about eachother and all that mushy disgusting love stuff (lol) and then out of the blue he told me that there was NO future with us that we could date but it would never be more, so I ended it. We couldn't remain friends, took me forever to get over and move on. I missed his friendship the most (and sadly sometimes still do... but ONLY the friendship part)...with time I did move on and I found FH and was able to feel that mushy love stuff all over again but it was stronger and drama free with FH. You get the point.
Anyhow, the Ex decideds last night he will text me a million times (probably drunk) telling me how much he loves me and how we could have had a future he was just 'scared' and 'confused'.
all i can say is.... MEN
and maybe throw a big ' F YOU' his way too
ets: Like an idiot I spent half the night crying. I am just really emotional today.. Its the 2 yr anniversary of my best friend passing away, and wedding stuff is stressing me out, and his BS made me mad...My eyes are so bloodshot
JennyAPH
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FYI We broke up 3 + years ago !
MrsGarcia
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Men are crazy creatures... Especially when under the influence of the truth syrum .
Just kick him and tell him to leave you alone
debzy
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Do you still communicate with him? That's when it's time to cut all ties, lose his number and stop responding to his calls/texts.
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Posted by debzy
Do you still communicate with him? That's when it's time to cut all ties, lose his number and stop responding to his calls/texts.
No this was the first time I have heard from him since... i think around this time last year... and that time was just a friendly email saying 'hi how are you happy holidays' BS
JennyAPH
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Its a bad day
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I don't get it- when they see you have moved on, that's when they come back to F with your head! My ex did that to me. He's such a jackass. I just sit there and just say whatever and walk away when I see him. Sorry you had to deal with that. Men are such idiots sometimes.
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Ugh, Jenn, pay him no mind!!! I dread anything in regards to my ex, and I feel your pain! Just don't let him get to you!!! Above all else, don't let him get to you. I'm sorry to hear about your best friend passing 2 years ago...My thoughts are with you today miss Jenn
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Posted by flairforfashion
I don't get it- when they see you have moved on, that's when they come back to F with your head! My ex did that to me. He's such a jackass. I just sit there and just say whatever and walk away when I see him. Sorry you had to deal with that. Men are such idiots sometimes.
agreed. ex are losers!
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sorry you're having such a bad day! I feel like all ex-boyfriends should be sent to live on an island where there are no phones, etc., so you never hear from them or see them again!
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AWWW! I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. Men are such babies sometimes. I'm so sorry about your friend and I hope you're not letting the stuff with your ex get to you. That's so over!
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Thanks girls.. I hate ex's as well. He is basically the reason why I left my old job (he worked there too) and why I moved out of the city. I had to pack up my life to move on and start over and now he just texts me that stuff like its nothing.. Dont get me wrong, moving was the best thing, FH and I got together and he is the ONE I am supposed to and want to be with...UGH... I didnt reply to his texts but I really wanted to tell him to F OFF...
I think someone at my old job must have told him we are engaged and he freaked.. regardless, he can kiss it... seriously he needs to dissapear.
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I hate days like that ....
I hope you feel better... don't even acknowledge that jerk. It's just now he's probably realizing he's lost you forever. Too bad for him !!
JennyAPH
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My friend just told me my ex is seeing someone...so i am changing my opinion from 'loser' to 'pathetic loser'.
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MLAngelo
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What is it with guys???
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Its a bad day
Im sorry exp about your friend. On the bright side the day is going to be over soon and tomorrow will be better
ETA: you should block him so he cant text you anymore
littlepixie12
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wow .. does your FH know about this? Mine would kill my ex if he did that
JennyAPH
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Posted by krislee316
Posted by gporka23
Its a bad day
Im sorry exp about your friend. On the bright side the day is going to be over soon and tomorrow will be better
ETA: you should block him so he cant text you anymore
Can you do that?? Its funny I dont even have his number in my phone but unfortunately know it by heart...Im good with #'s like that.
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wow .. does your FH know about this? Mine would kill my ex if he did that
No, FH was working last night till 2am so when he got home I was asleep and haven't talked to him yet today. I wont tell him anyway its stupid texts and no reason to get him all worked up too.. i just want to ignore it all
