The Garter!

We're doing both. FH wasn't going to do the garter originally but he figures the guys are going to expect it since I'm doing the BoK toss. We told the DJ to keep it PG-13!!

I'm not doing either, but we are doing an Anniversary Dance.

Someone asked the question, so I'll explain. For the anniversary dance, all married couples are invited onto the dance floor. After the music starts, the DJ will say, 'Anyone who has been married for less than 24 hours must leave the dance floor.' So, of course, you and your FH will leave. The DJ will proceed will less than six months, one year, etc. until the only couple who has been married the longest remains on dance floor. The bride then gives her bouquet to that couple. It's a way for the newlyweds to honor the couple who has been married the longest.