THE NEW INLAWS???

Original post by AMANDA2378

Sep 20, 2006 09:59 AM

DOES EVERYONE GET ALONG WITH THERE SOON TO BE INLAWS AND ANY SYBLINGS??

MY FH NEED TO CUT THE CORD.....HE GETS HIS PARENTS OPINION ON EVERYTHING!!!

THEY ARE GREAT THOUGH.....I COULDNT ASK FOR ANY BETTER. I JUST WISH HE WOULD STEP BACK ABIT AND NOT BE SO YA KNOW??

angnick Posted: Sep 20, 2006 12:38 PM

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I dont even like to discuss this topic. UGH

GwynethBride Posted: Sep 20, 2006 12:38 PM

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Mine are wonderful, I'm very lucky!!

thelastresort Posted: Sep 20, 2006 12:41 PM

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I like FMIL a lot but I am not close with her like I would like to be. She's a little difficult to get close to. Plus, lately, she's been doing crazy sh!t that have no idea why...like just being completely unreliable. I don't get it...maybe she doesn't like me...I don't know. I wish I had the same relationship with my FIL's that I did with my ex's parents. I miss them (not so much the ex though...lol)

AMANDA2378 Posted: Sep 20, 2006 12:41 PM

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Posted by lilangel

Well ... The problems I have with my fiances inlaws are the same problems that he has.

We also just recently found out that they will not able to make it to the wedding. My fiance is crushed and I am so mad at them because of it.

OMG...SERIOUSLY??? ACTUALLY, AT MY SISTERS WEDDING....HER HUSBANDS FATHER DID NOT COME, BUT HE CALLED HIS CELL RIGHT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE CEREMONY.

sugarkube4 Posted: Sep 20, 2006 12:44 PM

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Posted by AMANDA2378

Posted by sugarkube4

I can't stand my future in laws... his father doesn't even talk to me, and his mother is a pain in the @ss

OMG!!! WHAT DOES YOUR FH SAY TO THAT??

His father moved to Florida and he barely talks to him and his mother is just miserable and everytime she calls she tries to grill us for information about his father and his new wife.. and she stalks me, including at work (my own mother doesn't call me at work) so we haven't talked to her since May and it's been very peaceful.. I do feel bad, but not that bad.. and plus, FH looks to my mom to be a surrogate mom to him..

AMANDA2378 Posted: Sep 20, 2006 12:45 PM

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Posted by sugarkube4

Posted by AMANDA2378

Posted by sugarkube4

I can't stand my future in laws... his father doesn't even talk to me, and his mother is a pain in the @ss

OMG!!! WHAT DOES YOUR FH SAY TO THAT??

His father moved to Florida and he barely talks to him and his mother is just miserable and everytime she calls she tries to grill us for information about his father and his new wife.. and she stalks me, including at work (my own mother doesn't call me at work) so we haven't talked to her since May and it's been very peaceful.. I do feel bad, but not that bad.. and plus, FH looks to my mom to be a surrogate mom to him..

AW, WELL AT LEAST HE HAS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR MOM!!

sugarkube4 Posted: Sep 20, 2006 12:50 PM

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Posted by AMANDA2378

Posted by sugarkube4

Posted by AMANDA2378

Posted by sugarkube4

I can't stand my future in laws... his father doesn't even talk to me, and his mother is a pain in the @ss

OMG!!! WHAT DOES YOUR FH SAY TO THAT??

His father moved to Florida and he barely talks to him and his mother is just miserable and everytime she calls she tries to grill us for information about his father and his new wife.. and she stalks me, including at work (my own mother doesn't call me at work) so we haven't talked to her since May and it's been very peaceful.. I do feel bad, but not that bad.. and plus, FH looks to my mom to be a surrogate mom to him..

AW, WELL AT LEAST HE HAS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR MOM!!

thank god!!!!

tiffandmatt Posted: Sep 20, 2006 01:03 PM

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We've had some disagreements, but thankfully for the most part we get along very well.

AMANDA2378 Posted: Sep 20, 2006 01:23 PM

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HONESTLY, I LIKE MY INLAWS BUT I REALLY DONT KNOW IF I WOULD BE ABLE TO OPEN MY MOUTH IF THEY DID SOMETHING THAT ANNOYED ME?? I DONT KNOW......I THINK MY FH WOULD PROB SIDE WITH THEM ANYWAY IF SOMETHING HAPPENED.
HOW BAD IS THAT?? HE SO FAR UP THERE A**ES!! HOW DO I CUT THE CORD FOR HIM???

PegaLega Posted: Sep 20, 2006 01:33 PM

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I love my ILs! They are great people! No complaints over here, I got lucky!

rachie Posted: Sep 20, 2006 01:39 PM

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Posted by AMANDA2378

HONESTLY, I LIKE MY INLAWS BUT I REALLY DONT KNOW IF I WOULD BE ABLE TO OPEN MY MOUTH IF THEY DID SOMETHING THAT ANNOYED ME?? I DONT KNOW......I THINK MY FH WOULD PROB SIDE WITH THEM ANYWAY IF SOMETHING HAPPENED.
HOW BAD IS THAT?? HE SO FAR UP THERE A**ES!! HOW DO I CUT THE CORD FOR HIM???

Move far far away HAHAHAH
perhaps move back towards home closer to meeeeeeeeeee

rachie Posted: Sep 20, 2006 01:40 PM

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rachie Posted: Sep 20, 2006 01:40 PM

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Posted by AMANDA2378

Posted by lilangel

Well ... The problems I have with my fiances inlaws are the same problems that he has.

We also just recently found out that they will not able to make it to the wedding. My fiance is crushed and I am so mad at them because of it.

OMG...SERIOUSLY??? ACTUALLY, AT MY SISTERS WEDDING....HER HUSBANDS FATHER DID NOT COME, BUT HE CALLED HIS CELL RIGHT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE CEREMONY.

OH BOY some things do not surprise me

leshellem Posted: Sep 20, 2006 02:23 PM

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FFIL ARE GREAT REALLY NO COMPLAINTS. FI FATHER ISN'T EXACTLY THRILLED WITH ME BUT HE IS ALWAYS VERY NICE TO ME. I'LL TAKE IT.

TnOiOnL Posted: Sep 20, 2006 02:34 PM

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Theyre all pretty good, nothing like MY family of course but they'll suffice...

JMM7876 Posted: Sep 20, 2006 02:43 PM

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LOVE THEM ALL!! My FH has 8 siblings...
They are so awesome! His mom is great too!

prettyprincess07 Posted: Sep 20, 2006 04:53 PM

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Posted by sugarkube4

I can't stand my future in laws... his father doesn't even talk to me, and his mother is a pain in the @ss

what does your FH say about that?
is your FFIL at least respectful to you?

prettyprincess07 Posted: Sep 20, 2006 04:56 PM

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Posted by AMANDA2378

HONESTLY, I LIKE MY INLAWS BUT I REALLY DONT KNOW IF I WOULD BE ABLE TO OPEN MY MOUTH IF THEY DID SOMETHING THAT ANNOYED ME?? I DONT KNOW......I THINK MY FH WOULD PROB SIDE WITH THEM ANYWAY IF SOMETHING HAPPENED.
HOW BAD IS THAT?? HE SO FAR UP THERE A**ES!! HOW DO I CUT THE CORD FOR HIM???

That is something he has to do on his own. As far as your inlaws, dont want you going to them to pick a fight, but you have to be at least comfrotable with them that you can speak your mind and speak up when they do or say something you dont like. JMO