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THE OFFICIAL What You Need to Get Hitched Legally Thread. everyone about to get their marriage license, breathe and read: [now includes info you need for AFTER the wedding]

Original post by CLMon7906

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you will need the following:


*A CERTIFIED, 'STATE' COPY WITH RAISED/OFFICIAL SEAL of your birth certificate.

the one from the hospital DOES NOT count. if you do not have one, find out what COUNTY you were born in and contact them....if in NY, possibly the TOWN as well...you can also get this from 'the state' but it might take longer. If you are from out of state living in NY and NO ONE can get it for you in person [parents] then you have 2 options: wait 6-8 weeks OR pay a fee to have it faster. google your state/county/town hall's vital records and it will have the info on their website.



OR

*YOUR CURRENT PASSPORT


AND YOU WILL NEED:

YOUR DRIVER'S LICENSE.



some halls will accept a baptismal record in place of a birth certificate or passport...to be sure of what you specifially need, contact the town hall you are going to FIRST and ask. Call them NOW even if you are 6 months away from your wedding to prevent problems at the last minute


also, if either of you is divorced, you will need the offiical divorce decree as well to prove that marriage is anulled/divorced/finished!



there is no blood test in NY

a marriage license is good for 60 days


it is NOT good until 24 hours have passed from its issuing.


the cost is $40.

and if after the wedding you do not receive your certificate within 4 weeks, contact the town/city hall where you got the license from.



you can also bring the following:

Naturalization record OR
Census record

AND

Employment picture ID OR
Immigration record

but the first items are more popular and most appreciated by the town halls....it's just easier when it's the 'normal stuff.'

*******Smithtown Town Hall: you will also need something with your Social Security number on it. It can be your SS card, a pay stub, W-2 form, or health insurance card.

GOOD LUCK TO ALL!!!!

HOPE THIS HELPS SOME OF YOU!!!

link on LIW where most of this came from. the rest of it came from going to get my marriage license!

don't trust an 'article'? this LIW article is actually from the state of NY website:
link where LIW got their info...it is word for word.


NAME CHANGING LINK FOR DMV...FORM YOU CAN DOWNLOAD, PRINT AND FILL OUT PRIOR TO GOING. FOR AFTER THE WEDDING.

for name changes at the DMV, all you need is your OLD/CURRENT license, your marriage certificate [the official one that is mailed to you 2-3 weeks (or longer depending on the location you acquired it from) from the Town Hall] and the $10 fee for the new license!


SOCIAL SECURITY LOCATION FINDER LINK

LINK TO FORM YOU NEED FOR THE SS OFFICE


for name changes at SS, all you need is your marriage certificate AND the form filled out.



I highly rec. the Melville location. You can use ANY location to get a new card...so you don't have to wait forever in Mineola. In fact, while I was waiting in Melville, the lady at the window told a girl who was 3 ahead of me that it was fine that she didn't live in Melville/the area and that she would be waiting for HOURS at Mineola...so they know Mineola is a mess!


BANK AND OTHER PLACES:

Well, this one will depend on each institution's own requirements. Many have stated that calling their credit card company was sufficient...my bank only needed my new license and marriage license. I happened to have my temp. license at the time, my OLD license [they gave it back to me at the DMV] and my marriage license. They didn't need or want my SS info. Just call or stop by all the other places you need to change your name at to see what you need...but it's most helpful if you just have these things together in the first place and take it all to each place.

HTH!!!!
NYC RESIDENTS: NAME CHANGE INFO/SS
*You must use the SS office in your borough. You unfortunately cannot use the LI locations.
Shiv

Re: THE OFFICIAL What You Need to Get Hitched Legally Thread. everyone about to get their marriage license, breathe and read: [now includes info you need for AFTER the wedding]

do you have to do your SS right away? doesn't it just effect your pay and taxes? So can I do it when I'm ready to change my name at work?

Can I just do my license for now and then SS later?
MalteseMommy

Re: THE OFFICIAL What You Need to Get Hitched Legally Thread. everyone about to get their marriage license, breathe and read: [now includes info you need for AFTER the wedding]

This is amazing! Thank you so much for posting all of this info!!!!

CLMon7906

Re: THE OFFICIAL What You Need to Get Hitched Legally Thread. everyone about to get their marriage license, breathe and read: [now includes info you need for AFTER the wedding]


Posted by BHW


Posted by CLMon7906


Posted by BHW

FYI, some halls (NYC for example) only require 1 form of picture ID. You do NOT need a birth certificate.

Also, for SS name changes, you can go to any SS office except if you live in Brooklyn. All Brooklyn residents must use the Brooklyn SS office.



actually, all NYC residents must go to the SS office in their respective borough.




This is not correct. Only Brooklyn and Queens residents must go to their respective SS offices.


This is taken directly from the SS website:

Depending on your circumstances, you can take or mail your application and evidentiary documents to your local Social Security office. First-time applicants age 12 or older must apply in person at a Social Security office while all others may mail their application materials.

People who live or receive mail in in Brooklyn, N.Y., Queens, N.Y., or Las Vegas, Nev. must apply at one of the following Social Security Card Centers. These offices serve both U.S. citizens and noncitizens applying for new or replacement Social Security cards.

Brooklyn Social Security Card Center
625 Fulton Street, Sixth Floor
Brooklyn, NY 11201
Monday to Friday, 7:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.
Thursday, 7:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m.
(See a map of the Brooklyn location)

Queens Social Security Card Center
155-10 Jamaica Avenue, Second Floor
Jamaica, NY 11432
Monday to Friday, 7:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.
Wednesday, 7:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m.
(See a map of the Queens location)

Las Vegas Social Security Card Center
1250 South Buffalo Drive
Suite 100
Las Vegas, NV 89117






omg...that is too funny. i was reporting what the SS lady told the NYC resident the day I was there. poor thing drove from the city to melville!

CLMon7906

Re: THE OFFICIAL What You Need to Get Hitched Legally Thread. everyone about to get their marriage license, breathe and read: [now includes info you need for AFTER the wedding]


Posted by Shiv

do you have to do your SS right away? doesn't it just effect your pay and taxes? So can I do it when I'm ready to change my name at work?

Can I just do my license for now and then SS later?



you can wait to do it. i think you can't really change your name at work until you do SS or you may not get full credit for your earnings.
CLMon7906

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CLMon7906

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xcalystax

Re: THE OFFICIAL What You Need to Get Hitched Legally Thread. everyone about to get their marriage license, breathe and read: [now includes info you need for AFTER the wedding]

So for NYC halls you only need one ID?

tricia3381

Re: THE OFFICIAL What You Need to Get Hitched Legally Thread. everyone about to get their marriage license, breathe and read: [now includes info you need for AFTER the wedding]

thanks soo much for posting this info!! I know when we get our marriage license i can change my first and last name. I'm just worried that DMV, SS Agency, etc. will have a problem amending my first and last name. has anyone else changed their first and last name? BTW- i'm just changing my first name from Patricia to Tricia. Also all my documents (birth cert, bapt cert, d.l. and ss card) all say my current name so i'm hoping that will prove i'm really who i am.
TIA!!
ama1771

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great info. thanks

HeatherRose

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Heres a link to the actually ss form you need to fill out to change your name on your ss card
SS Card name change form
DNicholes

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