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t Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:19 AM+

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Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:19 AM

The stress is killing me

I got bad news on thursday and things keep going down hill for me so I am upset, pissed and every other word in between. I went to the doctor and was complaining about my throat and it turns out I might have something wrong with my throat. (I posted about it a few days ago. Throat cancer) anyway, yesterday my husband goes to the doctor and gets told he might have diabetes and while I was at work my kids had to go the doctor cause one had a cold. The pediatrician looks at him and tells us he has just a cold which I think is my only good news here. My older boy as to go see an orthopedist for his hip which has my insides in a knot. I want to curl up in my bed and just cry. I can not even shed one tear with all this stress on my mind. Plus the hardware store is giving us some problems.

Life does get better right?

I want to talk to my hubby but we both have so much stress. I try talking to my brother and he said 'dont let it get to you' How can you not let this get to you? Even my folks said the same sh*t. Sorry to vent but im upset

kbeana24 Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:42 AM+

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Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:42 AM

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KathleenG Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:42 AM+

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Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:42 AM

Re: The stress is killing me

I am so sorry. It looks like you have a lot on your plate right now!! Things will get better, I am sending you many

In the mean time, vent away.

sandj100304 Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:43 AM+

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Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:43 AM

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HearzBellz Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:43 AM+

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Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:43 AM

Re: The stress is killing me

brideinapril Posted: Oct 26, 2004 11:01 AM+

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Posted: Oct 26, 2004 11:01 AM

Re: The stress is killing me

wow, when they say it 'when it rains it pours' I think this is what they are referring to.
Sorry to hear about all of this....

marymoon Posted: Oct 26, 2004 11:04 AM+

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Posted: Oct 26, 2004 11:04 AM

Re: The stress is killing me

It will definitely get better. Hang in there.

And definitely talk to DH!!!!

MrsTC Posted: Oct 26, 2004 11:37 AM+

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Posted: Oct 26, 2004 11:37 AM

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when it gets so low it has no place else to go but up - things will get better, you'll see!

nov04LIbride Posted: Oct 26, 2004 11:40 AM+

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Posted: Oct 26, 2004 11:40 AM

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Definitely talk to DH--even crying together can really help! It seems like you feel alone in this, and you aren't--the two of you share the grief of all of those things--you need to communicate to feel that, and not let him keep it bottled up inside! Good luck...There is always a rainbow after the rain...

DeniseMang Posted: Oct 26, 2004 11:52 AM+

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Posted: Oct 26, 2004 11:52 AM

Re: The stress is killing me

OMG, I am so sorry. Please FM me if you would like to talk. I have gone through this scary cancer thing this year to with my Father. He had Esophageal Cancer. I know what you are going through..

2003OCT10 Posted: Oct 26, 2004 12:21 PM+

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Posted: Oct 26, 2004 12:21 PM

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I would just tell your DH even though it may not be affecting him as full forced as it is you, that 'this' is the way you feel.... and that you just need his moral support, or just a giant hug.... Good Luck with everything!