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the verbal RSVP i just got

AwaitingAugust Posted:

the verbal RSVP i just got

So RSVPs are due at the end of the week and I facebook 'emailed' the friends who's rsvps we were missing just to remind them to send them over.

i get this response just now:

I really don't know what's going on that far ahead. If I MUST decide now, put us as a no. But I won't know for a while yet.


um ... what the heck does that even mean?! i knew she wasn't necessarily going to make it because it was her mom's bday (who lives upstate) but comeon - that's kind of an obnoxious response, IMO



oh well, at least we have 2 more no's
MongieToBe Posted:

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You're wedding is a month away....how can she not understand that you need to know who's coming?! Sooome people
Rosalind_75 Posted:

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what the fcuk kinda response it that

what a tool
Jna2010 Posted:

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seriously what an IDIOT!!!!!! i dont think ive heard of a more moronic response

its ok, wait till its her damn wedding
MR1223 Posted:

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thats a messed up response. i wouldnt even respond to it and just mark them down no. ugh i just got angry for you!

StaceyWill Posted:

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Wow!!
canmigs Posted:

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I got almost the same exact response on facebook!! Maybe it's the same person! I was she would let me know this week...still haven't heard anything!
Future Mrs H Posted:

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Are you kidding me? I would just put her as a no and leave it at that. If she gets back to you and says yes after your response date I would say 'sorry I already have you as a no' Thats it!

AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

So RSVPs are due at the end of the week and I facebook 'emailed' the friends who's rsvps we were missing just to remind them to send them over.

i get this response just now:

I really don't know what's going on that far ahead. If I MUST decide now, put us as a no. But I won't know for a while yet.


um ... what the heck does that even mean?! i knew she wasn't necessarily going to make it because it was her mom's bday (who lives upstate) but comeon - that's kind of an obnoxious response, IMO



oh well, at least we have 2 more no's



ewww... i would put them down as a definite NO... that is beyond obnoxious...
Lil OC Posted:

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That response is ridiculous. I'd mark her down as a NO. Anyone who cannot respond appropriately is not worthy enough to be at the most important say of your life!!! I would respond this way 'Sorry to hear you won't be able to make it. You will be missed.', so that she understands that she cannot just change her mind if she feels like it.

MrsC2010 Posted:

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wow

has she never been to a wedding before?! anyone who has would know that you need to decide if your going in advance...you can't just decide that day if you feel like showing up
Lisalana Posted:

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that's so rediculous. do you think she said that purposely just to annoy you? bc that's a really odd answer - unless she's never been to a wedding before, which seems unlikely. regardless, she's a no.

Ray8183 Posted:

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Posted by Lil OC

That response is ridiculous. I'd mark her down as a NO. Anyone who cannot respond appropriately is not worthy enough to be at the most important say of your life!!! I would respond this way 'Sorry to hear you won't be able to make it. You will be missed.', so that she understands that she cannot just change her mind if she feels like it.

ITA, plus you wasn't going to miss her anyway. There are more fun people in your life. On to the next check.
SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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ISNT THAT THE REASON WE SEND OUT INVITES - SO PEOPLE KNOW NOT TO MAKE PLANS FOR THAT DATE. IM SORRY BUT THAT PERSON IS AN IDIOT.
KTnChris Posted:

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what a complete ahole!! some people just don't get it

Becca2010 Posted:

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

ISNT THAT THE REASON WE SEND OUT INVITES - SO PEOPLE KNOW NOT TO MAKE PLANS FOR THAT DATE. IM SORRY BUT THAT PERSON IS AN IDIOT.



ITA!!! It's called Hellooooo mark your calendar???? Ugh you're better off if this person doesn't come anyway.
AdriandSteve Posted:

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umm.. it's not like your asking her about next Jan!

mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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Very obnoxious!

miamimerger Posted:

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when she gets married she'll understand...until people go through the wedding process, i don't think they realize how important these things are to a bride!

JennandAnthony Posted:

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i hate people.....
i got a text from my cousin saying hes 'waiting'

yet his wife purchased tickets for the lady gaga concert in feb .......so they can come up from florida for that but are unsure about my wedding?? ....there should be a punch icon

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