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the wedding blues

BEBEGIRL1978 Posted:

the wedding blues

my wedding is in 14 days and as i am working, trying to contact all the vendors and finish my seating chart, i am feeling depressed. fiance and i are at each others throat all the time about stupid things do you think its just because of nerves? i almost feel like leaving and running away . i cant take the pressure. help

nferrandi Posted:

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Honestly you need to evaluate your feelings. There's a very big chance that it is jst nrves. But there's also a chance that you're having legitimate doubts. I know it's tough, but if you seriously can't see yourself with this man 30+ years from now, then maybe you should call it off. There are a few girls on the boards who have separated/divorced after short marriages and they will all tell you that they had serious doubts before the wedding and they should have listened to their inner voice.

Gailita Posted:

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Don't stress yourself out. Try to relax get a good bath, maybe light some candles even if it's just for 15-20mins. It's good to take a break sometimes, you don't want to send yourself crazy before your wedding. Everything will be okay. Good Luck

july06bride Posted:

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It is a nerve wracking time and it is normal to be at eachothers throats when such an important time in your life is arriving...you have waited and planned and you want everything perfect and it is stressful... BUT it will be perfect, even with things dont go exactly the way you planned it will be perfect!

maybe you can 'get away' to do something with your friends or just yourself...maybe get a facial or massage and relax away from wedding planning and the nerves...

Good Luck!
jesslangen Posted:

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Posted by Gailita

Don't stress yourself out. Try to relax get a good bath, maybe light some candles even if it's just for 15-20mins. It's good to take a break sometimes, you don't want to send yourself crazy before your wedding. Everything will be okay. Good Luck



I couldnt agree more. Take a step back and stop stressing..obviously easier said than done. But do something that always makeos you smile. Curl up on the couch and watch a chick flick Or read a couple of chapters in your favorite book. Relax, it will all work out in the end and ultimately its not worth you and FH being at each others throats!

BEBEGIRL1978 Posted:

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thanks for youe support, a massage sounds good. i really need a vacation.

shellnroc Posted:

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You definitely need to relax!!! I think it's totally normal to be at eachothers throat. Your nerves are going crazy. That's why you need to relax. Go be by yourself for awhile. Taking a nice bath sounds good.

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