think its off

Original post by 123bride

Jun 15, 2004 10:37 AM

Well girls i am sorry to say but I think the wedding's off (yes I am under another name) we are ONLY 3 1/2 weeks away but FH doesnt think he can go thru with it, I am not quite sure how to handle this, I am in ultimate shock, I have every emotion under the sun going on right now, I didnt know where else to turn.I new you girls would listen I told him he can make all the phone calls and call the vendors and do the 'dirty work', that I want no part of it, he was my heart and soul and now its crumbling, sorry had to vent and did not know where else to do it.
Good luck in all your planning

cocoa Posted: Jun 15, 2004 12:37 PM

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please have a talk with him...tell him to get out what he's feeling...it sounds like he is just nervous. anyway, good luck!!!

palebride Posted: Jun 15, 2004 01:00 PM

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hope it all works out for the best

123bride Posted: Jun 15, 2004 01:17 PM

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thank you so much for all you support girls, i really appreciate it

btrflygrl Posted: Jun 15, 2004 01:27 PM

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I'm sorry for your troubles! I wish you only the best in this tough time!!!

Kriss2c Posted: Jun 15, 2004 01:32 PM

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I am so sorry that you are going through this. It does sound a lot like cold feet. I'm sending you hugs and hopes that the two of you work this out.

JimmysBride Posted: Jun 15, 2004 01:49 PM

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I am so sorry to hear this and sorry you are going through it!! I sincerely hope everything works out for the best... why don't you want to post under your regular name? We are here for you! Did you have any inkling that this was coming or was it out of the blue? The reason I ask is that if it was out of the blue, it really might just be nervousness or cold feet!

allaboutthecake Posted: Jun 15, 2004 03:34 PM

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I cannot believe that he waited until now to tell you that he doesn't want to go through with it. I feel so bad for you. If we can do anything please let us know!

Janine24 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 04:30 PM

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OSCARtheGROOM Posted: Jun 15, 2004 04:38 PM

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I feel terrible your going through this.

LIJuneBride Posted: Jun 15, 2004 08:52 PM

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I'm sorry you have to go through this. It will work out for the best. Keep the lines of communication open so you both know where you stand. Best of luck...

soon2bmrs2004 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 09:44 PM

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LIPrincess00 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 10:35 PM

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I am so sorry you are going through this.

marymoon Posted: Jun 15, 2004 10:41 PM

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I can't even begin to tell you how sorry I am. Love, hugs and prayers

nov.bride Posted: Jun 15, 2004 11:02 PM

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I am very sorry for you. Just take it day by day and know we are here for you.

Summer05 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 11:02 PM

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MrsBtoBe2005 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 11:08 PM

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I'm so sorry.

BriBri529 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 11:08 PM

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Posted by JZNCK

I'm so sorry.. I don't know why these men get nervous, and think they should call off the wedding, THEY ARE JUST NERVOUS.. so are we!! I'm sorry

I feel the exact same way . . .