think its off

Well girls i am sorry to say but I think the wedding's off (yes I am under another name) we are ONLY 3 1/2 weeks away but FH doesnt think he can go thru with it, I am not quite sure how to handle this, I am in ultimate shock, I have every emotion under the sun going on right now, I didnt know where else to turn.I new you girls would listen I told him he can make all the phone calls and call the vendors and do the 'dirty work', that I want no part of it, he was my heart and soul and now its crumbling, sorry had to vent and did not know where else to do it.
Good luck in all your planning

Do you think its stress or he's a little scared? What made him do this right before the big day.

OMG! I am so sorry!!!!!!!! When was the wedding for? I don't even know what to say except that I hope it all works out. It is better now then later and go through a nasty divorce...seriously!!!!

Good Luck to you!!!!

So sorry ... have you guys talked this over? Maybe he just has 'cold feet'? I'm sooo sorry

Oh I am so sorry. Do you think it could be a case of very cold feet? Best of luck to you.

Are you sure? Maybe he just has cold feet and is nervous? He should make sure of what he really wants before he completely breaks your heart and cancels the wedding

OMG. I am so sorry I can't imagine what you are going through, but if it is meant to be, it will be. You deserve someone who will love you without doubt and dreams of spendign the rest of his life with you. You two may work things out and your relationship will be stronger. If things don't work out, than there is something better out there for you. Whatever happens, know that you are an amazing person who deserves the best in life. We are here for you.

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Posted by 123bride

Well girls i am sorry to say but I think the wedding's off (yes I am under another name) we are ONLY 3 1/2 weeks away but FH doesnt think he can go thru with it, I am not quite sure how to handle this, I am in ultimate shock, I have every emotion under the sun going on right now, I didnt know where else to turn.I new you girls would listen I told him he can make all the phone calls and call the vendors and do the 'dirty work', that I want no part of it, he was my heart and soul and now its crumbling, sorry had to vent and did not know where else to do it.
Good luck in all your planning

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I am soooo sorry you are going through this...please don't feel you have to leave!

I wish you the best

I thought it was cold feet, but who knows I knwo he is nervous but I told him theres a difference between nervous and doubtful, and he just looked at me and couldnt answer, the other part is his family doesnt think he is ready either and they decided to tell me this now, 3 weeks before, I cant even belive it, i told them this is our decsion no one else,
BTW we have been together for 4 years and have a house together so I dont know why he is feeling like this now

Did this just happen out of the blue? I hope he is just nervous/has cold feet I hope everything works out, if not we are here for you

Good luck, you will get through this....

Hugs hugs hugs - please don't feel you have to leave LIW - we're here if you ever need anything!

Could it be that he had just a moment of nervousness?? Either way, good luck to you - we are here for you!