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This has bothered me for months...

Original post by LaLa

Months ago, when I first started using this site, I was unfamiliar with the etiquette that makes up this site. After months reading and posting and planning I have learned a lot from you all. But there is one thing that really bothered me. I was accused of not being a real bride. Even now I still read what that 'other bride' posts and I think about how embarrassed she made me feel. I stopped using the site and stopped planning for months because I was so hurt. She did not FM me. She just accused me and posted it for all the world to see. I just want to you to know that I am still bothered by your rude, low, selfless comment. You know who you are.

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JPCP4806 Posted:

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Posted by LaLa

I am and have been back to planning 100%!!!!



Good for you! I would never let Someone run me off the boards let alone stop planning- Think about it - they are on the PC not in real life- no matter what anyone says in here ITS YOUR WEDDING! if they claim ur fake b/c of a wierd wedding date or comments Thats their thing- not your to worry about. I can go on for a while about it... ANYWAY.... Welcome back!
Tina120206 Posted:

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Welcome back DATE TWIN!!!!

lulugrrl Posted:

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Beth1210 Posted:

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some people really have a lot of nerve- and alot of free time on there hands to go out of there way to try to hurt other people

I don't get it- glad you are back- I almost let some B%^*(h run me off on monday- and she knows who she is as well-

try not to let it bother you- which is easier said then done - I know- but you have to consider the source!
FINALLYME Posted:

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You should never back down from anyone if you know you are real and not hurting anyone. I too know the feeling about being chastised and majorley told off by some of the other brides here. I thought I had the right to say what I felt but I was wrong. It became quite vicious and was told that some of the brides wouldn't help me ever again. I decided to not post for a while about 1 month or so but I still read all the posts for each day. I'm back now but very sparingly, I find it's easier on my mental status not having to watch every little post I put out that it might offend or piss someone off. So I'm glad you're back & don't let anyone intimidate you, LIWEDDINGS is a GREAT resource
but it shouldn't run your life.
DUCKS2001 Posted:

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OH HONEY I AM SO SORRY , DON'T LET PEOPLE BOTHER YOU, ITS THEM NOT YOU
Naunie Posted:

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Screw 'em. Welcome back!

cindyandkevin Posted:

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Sorry that you were so bothered by this person, but I'm glad you're back now!! You shouldn't let one sour grape ruin it for the rest of the bunch!!
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Posted by BKtoLI

Well I'm glad you came back and decided not to let some stupid person keep you from posting!! We all have weddings to plan here!!



Exactly
Preshy7 Posted:

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im sorry that someone called you fake
but i must say this- we are all strangers practically
yes being called fake can be embarrassing but why let that ruin your wedding planning for months? people find out the truth eventually


on this board, people get accused of being fake often - girls that have been here for a while know that we are a little hesitant here because so many people on this site with fake names and fake compliments or insults to vendors have caused serious drama on this board

i think that you should brush it all off and get back to planning- why let one person, who called you a fakie on some wedding site get to you?

screw that!



Swan06 Posted:

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Yeah, this site has a couple of bullies on it. I was ganged up on this site over the summer and I laughed it off and kept on posting and reading. Keep on planning and best of luck
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