this is NOT a joke...

Original post by catsgirl

Dec 04, 2007 03:25 PM

a girl i work with got married a year ago, (it was beautiful) took a family leave today, heres why..
dear so and so,
i'm sorry to tell you like this in a letter but i dont think i'm ready to be a husband and father, and i cant express how much i miss being with my mom, so i dropped the baby off at daycare and moved back home, will talk later. i'm so sorry, i just am not ready.
sicerely ,
a$$ hole.
can you beleive this, she just e-mailed me the letter, i'm going to call her now, i know she needs a friend, she never even saw it coming. oh i signed his name that way....

hannahshim Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:32 PM

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WHATT!!!!!
what a A-hole!!!
she definitely needs a friend!!
sorry for your friend..
WOW im speechless

catsgirl Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:33 PM

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she's going to call me back when she pulls herself together, but she said his mom is in all her glory cause she got her baby boy back, honestly i dont know what to even say,i never in my life experienced this topic, wah i want my mommy from a 30 yr. old man.

MrsHtobe Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:35 PM

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poor girl.

How old is this guy?

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:35 PM

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OMG hugs for your friend

futuremrsfab Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:35 PM

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whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? he misses being with his mommy? W T F- i cant believe that his mom let him move back in!

KK Holiday Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:35 PM

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he misses his mom??? what the hell!!!???

SB7308 Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:35 PM

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omg that is awful. he sounds like a baby and for the mother to be happy that he just left his wife/kid is really horrible!!!

dajc23 Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:37 PM

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Ewww b/c he wants to move back to his mother!?!? Grow up...You can miss her but to drop your family like that..f*cked up

Mighty Mouse Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:38 PM

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That's terrible! So sorry for your friend...

Can't stand immature people like that...grow up!

catsgirl Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:41 PM

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i dont know what to tell her, i cant say it will be ok, because right now its not ok. she sounded a wreck on the phone, i am crying for her, how does this happen? how does his family condone this? she said the other night they talked about giving her mom the baby a few days to go skiing, i'm stumped. and mad,,

AMGBride2008 Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:44 PM

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Posted by catsgirl

she's going to call me back when she pulls herself together, but she said his mom is in all her glory cause she got her baby boy back, honestly i dont know what to even say,i never in my life experienced this topic, wah i want my mommy from a 30 yr. old man.

He's not a man

I'm so sorry for your friend
There is nothing you can say to make this easier... she probably doesn't want you to say anything... I would just listen and let her cry and don't be afraid to cry with her

How can his mother be elated that he son is coming back?! You're proud that you raised your son to treat his wife that way?! PIG!

edited for spelling... but I'm still pizzed for your friend!

zoe282 Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:44 PM

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I have never heard anything more ridiculous in my life....misses his mom???? that is absolutely crazy!!! I feel so sorry for your friend...

Browneyesncute Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:45 PM

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WOW!

ant n tilde Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:45 PM

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Kim is right - he is NOT a man.

and not that this would ever happen, but if my brother came back home to us we would be MORTIFIED my mother would send him right back home to his WIFE and CHILD

people are just disgusting and it is always sad when a normal person gets caught up with a bunch of crazies!!!!

zoe282 Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:45 PM

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good call AMGbride....why would another woman want her son to treat his wife and her grandchild that way

MrsQ-in2007 Posted: Dec 04, 2007 03:48 PM

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WOW. I feel so horribly bad for you friend. So unbelievable that he would drop his family like that. And I HATE it that his mom is thrilled that he left his wife and child!!! You can love your son, but don't you want him to be a responsible person????