This morning at Jones Beach

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Posted by 040508Bride

did i say something mean?? because i didn't MEAN to.....oh god...why did i post anything

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NO YOU SAID NOTHING MEAN!!! dont worry about it -

its just that people need to stop being sensitive - this is ONLINE - its the INTERNET - not your social friendly gathering - I think its the BEST way to get someones honest opinion because so often our friends don't!

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Posted by 040508Bride

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by 040508Bride

did i actually just start drama??? i've never done that before..... anna...i am very sorry...i hope you understand what i was trying to say.....i *know* you didn't and wouldn't say anything hurtful to anyone...actually you've posted on a million of my posts and have been very helpful :)

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i dont think youre starting drama and i understand how you meant it...the other day a thread was posted and i said bc careful what you say you dont want to hurt someones feelings...i think ppl can be honest without being hurtful and i think sometimes ppl are too sensitive but i only said bc i know how other threads turned out and just was trying to avoid drama, which is what im sure you were doing

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that is all i meant...plain and simple....i know she wouldn't say anything that would hurt someone...but there has been so much drama this week.....totally didnt mean or want to start drama...im not that kinda poster

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trust me i know, i did the same thing and then ppl said things to me that we should all say whatever we want.

Just like you said we know Anna and know she is not like that and wouldn't try to offend anyone

All I hear in my head is the Mary J. Blige song....
No More Drama!

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by 040508Bride

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by 040508Bride

did i actually just start drama??? i've never done that before..... anna...i am very sorry...i hope you understand what i was trying to say.....i *know* you didn't and wouldn't say anything hurtful to anyone...actually you've posted on a million of my posts and have been very helpful :)

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i dont think youre starting drama and i understand how you meant it...the other day a thread was posted and i said bc careful what you say you dont want to hurt someones feelings...i think ppl can be honest without being hurtful and i think sometimes ppl are too sensitive but i only said bc i know how other threads turned out and just was trying to avoid drama, which is what im sure you were doing

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that is all i meant...plain and simple....i know she wouldn't say anything that would hurt someone...but there has been so much drama this week.....totally didnt mean or want to start drama...im not that kinda poster

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trust me i know, i did the same thing and then ppl said things to me that we should all say whatever we want.

Just like you said we know Anna and know she is not like that and wouldn't try to offend anyone

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Thanks Denise!

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Posted by jgl

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by klanghan

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Posted by 040508Bride

i'm sure you aren't trying to insult anyone or hurt their feelings, but i'd watch what ya say....you never know if that was one of our girls......yeah photogs make you do weird things sometimes....but ya can't help it. Photog with Video sounds like a Thomas Paul bride.....he does both at the e-shoots........JMO


ETA: what i mean is....it may have been pics that they wanted.....

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very true, people have been sensitve lately

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this has nothing to do with what you said at all this is a general statement

honestly - TOO bad if people are sensitive - then dont come on a public forum if you are going to get your feelings hurt !

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YOU GO GINA!!!

I think she was just pointing out how ppl do get but agrees with you, i did the same recently.

Its funny i just started reading bergdorf blondes on the train ride home and it said something we should all remember 'say what you mean, mean what you say, just dont be mean about it'

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Thanks Denise!! hahaha!!!

I know she wasnt trying to do that - she was JUST pointing out - thats fine - unfortunetly people dont realize that by pointing out that someones feelings MAY get hurt that in itself starts the drama and hurts someones feelings - its a losing battle

i just had to say that - not because of this post JUST BECAUSE! im glad i got it out!!! BTW love that quote its SOOOO true!

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it really is a losing battle lol

i know it should be the motto of the 08 boards lol...its funny who knew id get an insightful quote from bergdorf blondes lol

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Posted by 040508Bride

right......ok...i'm done with this. I hope the girls pics came out great...even the corny ones.......i'm sure they look beautiful and i can't wait to do mine....i just left TP a message a little while ago so i can try to book for sept/oct

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you are going to have so much fun!

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jgl

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Posted by klanghan

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Posted by 040508Bride

i'm sure you aren't trying to insult anyone or hurt their feelings, but i'd watch what ya say....you never know if that was one of our girls......yeah photogs make you do weird things sometimes....but ya can't help it. Photog with Video sounds like a Thomas Paul bride.....he does both at the e-shoots........JMO


ETA: what i mean is....it may have been pics that they wanted.....

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very true, people have been sensitve lately

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this has nothing to do with what you said at all this is a general statement

honestly - TOO bad if people are sensitive - then dont come on a public forum if you are going to get your feelings hurt !

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YOU GO GINA!!!

I think she was just pointing out how ppl do get but agrees with you, i did the same recently.

Its funny i just started reading bergdorf blondes on the train ride home and it said something we should all remember 'say what you mean, mean what you say, just dont be mean about it'

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Thanks Denise!! hahaha!!!

I know she wasnt trying to do that - she was JUST pointing out - thats fine - unfortunetly people dont realize that by pointing out that someones feelings MAY get hurt that in itself starts the drama and hurts someones feelings - its a losing battle

i just had to say that - not because of this post JUST BECAUSE! im glad i got it out!!! BTW love that quote its SOOOO true!

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it really is a losing battle lol

i know it should be the motto of the 08 boards lol...its funny who knew id get an insightful quote from bergdorf blondes lol

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I'm making it saying above my avitar!!!

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Posted by 040508Bride

right......ok...i'm done with this. I hope the girls pics came out great...even the corny ones.......i'm sure they look beautiful and i can't wait to do mine....i just left TP a message a little while ago so i can try to book for sept/oct

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He does do beautiful work, good luck on booking him for sept/oct to do e-pics.

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Posted by 040508Bride

right......ok...i'm done with this. I hope the girls pics came out great...even the corny ones.......i'm sure they look beautiful and i can't wait to do mine....i just left TP a message a little while ago so i can try to book for sept/oct

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lol! I'm sure her pics came out great....the waves were awesome today and I'm sure yours will come out beautiful as well! even the corny ones!

its too long!!

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Posted by jgl

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jgl

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Posted by jgl

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Posted by klanghan

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Posted by 040508Bride

i'm sure you aren't trying to insult anyone or hurt their feelings, but i'd watch what ya say....you never know if that was one of our girls......yeah photogs make you do weird things sometimes....but ya can't help it. Photog with Video sounds like a Thomas Paul bride.....he does both at the e-shoots........JMO


ETA: what i mean is....it may have been pics that they wanted.....

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very true, people have been sensitve lately

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this has nothing to do with what you said at all this is a general statement

honestly - TOO bad if people are sensitive - then dont come on a public forum if you are going to get your feelings hurt !

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YOU GO GINA!!!

I think she was just pointing out how ppl do get but agrees with you, i did the same recently.

Its funny i just started reading bergdorf blondes on the train ride home and it said something we should all remember 'say what you mean, mean what you say, just dont be mean about it'

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Thanks Denise!! hahaha!!!

I know she wasnt trying to do that - she was JUST pointing out - thats fine - unfortunetly people dont realize that by pointing out that someones feelings MAY get hurt that in itself starts the drama and hurts someones feelings - its a losing battle

i just had to say that - not because of this post JUST BECAUSE! im glad i got it out!!! BTW love that quote its SOOOO true!

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it really is a losing battle lol

i know it should be the motto of the 08 boards lol...its funny who knew id get an insightful quote from bergdorf blondes lol

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I'm making it saying above my avitar!!!

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will it fit? if so yeah definitely lol

umm i'll stay free from that talk about drama and say how cute i cant wait for my e-pics

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Posted by Princess Cut Bride

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Posted by 040508Bride

right......ok...i'm done with this. I hope the girls pics came out great...even the corny ones.......i'm sure they look beautiful and i can't wait to do mine....i just left TP a message a little while ago so i can try to book for sept/oct

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lol! I'm sure her pics came out great....the waves were awesome today and I'm sure yours will come out beautiful as well! even the corny ones!

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the corny ones can be great lol...but like you said, many poses that you wouldn't normally do especially to a guy would be like OH GOD lol

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Posted by 040508Bride

yeah.....we were at a wedding and they were doing a table shot and rich was so not compliant with the photog!!! grrr!!! he better learn to listen lol

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i think if you're really comfortable with the photographer himself/herself it really helps...the first few shots you just have to get used to and after its alot better...just have fun with it

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Princess Cut Bride

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Posted by 040508Bride

right......ok...i'm done with this. I hope the girls pics came out great...even the corny ones.......i'm sure they look beautiful and i can't wait to do mine....i just left TP a message a little while ago so i can try to book for sept/oct

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lol! I'm sure her pics came out great....the waves were awesome today and I'm sure yours will come out beautiful as well! even the corny ones!

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the corny ones can be great lol...but like you said, many poses that you wouldn't normally do especially to a guy would be like OH GOD lol

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I know....I love taking pics....on the other hand Fh hates it....this is what I get from him...

the problem i used to have with FH is he used to hate smiling for pics and would do this zoolander face...i felt so bad the first time i was making him take pics and he was uncomfortable and im like stop doing that zoolander face and smile...now hes gotten better, seriously every pic used to be a zoolander face

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Posted by Espo22

the problem i used to have with FH is he used to hate smiling for pics and would do this zoolander face...i felt so bad the first time i was making him take pics and he was uncomfortable and im like stop doing that zoolander face and smile...now hes gotten better, seriously every pic used to be a zoolander face

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Lol! Yea...here's another example....


Can't wait to take our e-pics....they are going to be hysterical!