thoughtful question of the day

do you find it hard to be 'happy'? are you more 'comfortable' with the world when you are going through hard times then when things seem to be going well? are you perhaps, more inclined to 'trust' in the hard times more than in the good times?














If you've answered yes to any of these questions, there is a seat on the short bus next to me...comes complete with a fancy new jacket and some little blue pills.

No, but I am happier when it's raining. I hate when it's all bright & sunny and HAPPY outside. Do I get to ride th ebus with you

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Posted by kittythestray

No, but I am happier when it's raining. I hate when it's all bright & sunny and HAPPY outside. Do I get to ride th ebus with you

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I think somebody wrote a song about you!

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Posted by superkat

Sometimes when things are going so well for me, I get a little nervous and I am waiting for that something bad to happen.

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That's DH, he's always waiting for the other shoe to drop. I like to be happy but there is some self-satisfaction of being upset/stressed and then seeing yourself get through it.

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Posted by JessicaM.

do you find it hard to be 'happy'? are you more 'comfortable' with the world when you are going through hard times then when things seem to be going well? are you perhaps, more inclined to 'trust' in the hard times more than in the good times?


If you've answered yes to any of these questions, there is a seat on the short bus next to me...comes complete with a fancy new jacket and some little blue pills.

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Generally speaking, I'm not an overly happy nor sad person. I'm sort of in the middle. I also happen to notice that I'm in a worse mood at the beginning of the day and as it goes on I'm better. Maybe that has to do with the fact that I HATE where I work. Maybe not.

I guess I really don't know when I'm happy. That could be due to the fact that I'm a moody biatch...Hmmmm.

I s*ck.
I am at the point in my life that is something is going good, I EXPECT it to fall apart. I am not so much comfortable, but use to things being poor.

Reminds me of a line from Pretty Woman, where they're laying in bed talking about how she was put down a lot when she was younger. And she says 'The bad stuff is just easier to believe, you ever notice that?' I think it's very true sometimes.

I had those 'what if' thoughts around the wedding, while I was thinking about life and the future. It was the first real 'I'm too happy, something horrible is going to happen.' that I've ever had.

I'm a pretty happy person. I can handle a lot, but potential problems with DH throw me over the edge. I think I could take everything else in life, but problems with him would kill me.

So on the rare occasion we have fights, I completely overrreact and get a bit manic.

Hmmm...I have Sylvia, Jennie and Green tendencies.

Like my 'reverse anorexia', I tend to be happy all the time. I take the good b/c I belive I deserve and have worked for the happiness in my life (think 'life is what you make of it'). However, when problems set in - I can crumble. Because of this, I'm also deathly afraid of death. They say that is a sign of depression...

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Posted by superkat

Sometimes when things are going so well for me, I get a little nervous and I am waiting for that something bad to happen. I especially felt like this for the few months before the wedding. But I try to fight it. It is a leftover from my screwed up childhood. LOL

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Did we have the same childhood?

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Posted by greenfreak
I'm a pretty happy person. I can handle a lot, but potential problems with DH throw me over the edge. I think I could take everything else in life, but problems with him would kill me.

So on the rare occasion we have fights, I completely overrreact and get a bit manic.

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Are you me? I am pretty much the same way.

I am happy with my life. It's not nice and pink everyday but I love where I am at in my life.

I just don't like winter. I really enjoy the great, warm weather. Then I totally thrive.

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Posted by JessicaM.

do you find it hard to be 'happy'? are you more 'comfortable' with the world when you are going through hard times then when things seem to be going well? are you perhaps, more inclined to 'trust' in the hard times more than in the good times?














If you've answered yes to any of these questions, there is a seat on the short bus next to me...comes complete with a fancy new jacket and some little blue pills.

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Any seats left?

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Posted by Kris516



Like my 'reverse anorexia', I tend to be happy all the time. I take the good b/c I belive I deserve and have worked for the happiness in my life (think 'life is what you make of it'). However, when problems set in - I can crumble. Because of this, I'm also deathly afraid of death. They say that is a sign of depression...

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Wow we should get our own bus!

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Posted by brooklynbridezilla

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Posted by greenfreak
I'm a pretty happy person. I can handle a lot, but potential problems with DH throw me over the edge. I think I could take everything else in life, but problems with him would kill me.

So on the rare occasion we have fights, I completely overrreact and get a bit manic.

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Are you me? I am pretty much the same way.

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ditto. To a T.

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Posted by Naunie

ditto. To a T.

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you?... never.

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Posted by superkat

Sometimes when things are going so well for me, I get a little nervous and I am waiting for that something bad to happen. I especially felt like this for the few months before the wedding. But I try to fight it. It is a leftover from my screwed up childhood. LOL

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I can relate. Perhaps we were sisters seperated at birth?

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Posted by chikita315

I forgot to add that I have some Greeny in me too

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Was it good for you too?