Thoughts on This Etiquette?

I don't think that it sound snobby or stuck up. it totally fine,and I could understand why people would do that, I want people to look nice at my wedding too.... I guessi would have done that but i dont think that I have ever been to a wedding where I saw someone that was too casual. then again what i consider casual maybe different than what others might see it as. For me casual is a button up with no tie and suit jacket)...
Anyway, if I thought that people would dress not 'as nice' i would add it too but that would just confuse the OTB greeks even more so I wont risk it.. (they might all show up wiht a black tie on )

Honey your reception is at Russos on the Bay - Anyone with half a brain will dress the part! I think eiher choice is suitable

I like the black tie optional!! Sounds better! It's your wedding and you are a classy a$$ chick!! No one will come casual!!!

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Posted by Shorty McBride

Martha Stewart says its OK to write 'black tie preferred'

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Of course you would say that....

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Posted by ZuzusPetals

Honey your reception is at Russos on the Bay - Anyone with half a brain will dress the part! I think eiher choice is suitable

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Ha Ha Ha..you're great Justine

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Posted by ZuzusPetals

Honey your reception is at Russos on the Bay - Anyone with half a brain will dress the part! I think eiher choice is suitable

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couldnt agree more niners!!!

IVe seen both numerous times!
We are putting Adult formal reception to follow as someone else said

NO KIDS NO SHORTS!

I think it's fine. I am not going with that though. When people see where my wedding is and the time they will know what the dress code is.