Threesome... could you, would you?

Original post by JimmysBride

Apr 07, 2005 11:27 AM

Do you think you could ever be part of a menage trois with your SO?

And if you think you could -- what would be the conditions (I'm not asking for the graphic stuff here) i.e. - it would have to be 2 guys, one girl, or you have to pick the girl, it would have to be someone you don't know and will never see again, etc etc. Any other special conditions that have to be met??

xjulietx Posted: Apr 08, 2005 12:18 AM

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Posted by marymoon

Posted by xjulietx

No. I think it would ruin my self-esteem. I would be thinking he liked the other girl more than me. I would compare myself to her. And in the end I would probably roll over and let her be the star because of my own feelings of inadequacy

What if it was another guy?

If it was another guy, I would be all stupid and nervous and my brain would be thinking too much about making sure DH was happy and still pleasing the other guy and since I am married to DH and live with him, he would be my first concern in the pleasure area.

I think I would feel weird receiving pleasure from someone else, too.

marymoon Posted: Apr 08, 2005 12:24 AM

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I definitely agree, but the comparison thing wouldn't be there.

I don't want my FH looking at another woman either...but 2 men sounds good in my head...though never in real life

eric'sbride Posted: Apr 08, 2005 01:42 AM

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Posted by marymoon

I definitely agree, but the comparison thing wouldn't be there.

I don't want my FH looking at another woman either...but 2 men sounds good in my head...though never in real life

I'm with you. Sounds good with 2 MEN but could I go through with it? I don't think so. I couldn't do that to FH and I think it would be weird being intimate with another person after being with someone so long.

JimmysBride Posted: Apr 08, 2005 01:16 PM

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Yeah... seeing DH with another chick would be a huge problem for me. Impossible. So my condition would be that he could absolutely not go anywhere near her!

Hmm....I guess it wouldn't be much of threesome then!

luvsbob4603 Posted: Apr 08, 2005 03:23 PM

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Nope! I would never do that, someone once asked me in high school if i would have a thresome and i was like No! Dh wouldn't either but he jokes about it when he see's things like that on tv.

don424 Posted: Apr 08, 2005 03:51 PM

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come on...will one of you who said they have done it, PLEASE elaborate

JimmysBride Posted: Apr 08, 2005 06:12 PM

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Posted by don424

come on...will one of you who said they have done it, PLEASE elaborate

you little piggie!!!

JUST KIDDING!

I knew SOMEBODY had to be thinking that!

EireBride-to-Be Posted: Apr 08, 2005 09:00 PM

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I could never!!! I would be SO jealous if it were another girl - I just couldn't ever do it, even if it were a guy.

Bunnymonkey Posted: Apr 08, 2005 10:46 PM

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We have talked about it many times, but I always come back to 'But honey, I would punch the living sh*t out of her the second she touched you!!'

So, if he and she were not allowed to touch, then it would just be him watching us (which he is perfectly fine with) but then I would feel like I was...cheating. or something.

It certainly raises alot of questions.

In the end, I think this remains as one of those fantasies that is fun and exciting to play with, but if it 'came true' it wouldn't be nearly the experience we had imagined it to be.

Riss44 Posted: Apr 10, 2005 02:03 PM

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Couldn't share my most intimate feelings with someone other than my FI....nor would I want to see him share his intimate feelings with any one else.

Marissa
5-27-06

lolita4life Posted: Apr 11, 2005 09:25 PM

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could. would. but NOT with DH! i'd get jealous! and i wouldnt want to make HIM jealous.
i ALMOST did a few years ago with my now Ex, but that didnt work out for the same reasons.

eta: my ex has had PLENTY of them though! like WAYYYY too many! (not just 3somes either, like 4somes too!)

February05 Posted: Apr 11, 2005 11:43 PM

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its too confusing... the schematics of it all... who's leg goes where, whats this arm doing Here.... my luck, i'd end up losing an eye

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DebsNY Posted: Apr 11, 2005 11:55 PM

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Posted by neeniebean86

its too confusing... the schematics of it all... who's leg goes where, whats this arm doing Here.... my luck, i'd end up losing an eye

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wood2be Posted: Apr 12, 2005 12:10 PM

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Hell No!

Diane Posted: Apr 12, 2005 03:43 PM

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so how about the people who voted yes....step up???

Preshy7 Posted: Apr 13, 2005 05:02 PM

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ugh no way
stds, jealousy - no fecking way

btw t-here are stds like hpv and herpes which can not be prevented with a condom

why would someone want to bring those factors into their relationship

Soon2BMrsJoeF Posted: Apr 15, 2005 02:18 PM

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Could Never and Would Never

Robeymuse Posted: Apr 15, 2005 04:46 PM

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Sorry I voted yes-been there done that before I saw that you said with SO...so no, I haven't with DH, I couldn't. I would be too jealous

My yes was from before I was with DH.