I met FH in January/February 2005 while part time working at a movie theatre. At that time I was debating whether or not to go away for college. We started hanging out in May/June, way after the college decision was made. He asked me to be his gf in June. At this point, I told my friends that I was going to date him until August and the night I left for school, Id end it cause 'why bring a relationship into college in another state.' Well, the night he was leaving my house after saying 'bye' to me, i cried. I told him that those were the best 2 months of my life. he told me he loved me. and we promised each other to try to make the distance work. That is when i KNEW.
can't wait to hear your stories! Carly
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I knew right away he has different then any other guy I have ever dated, in a good way. lol There was just something about him. I just came off a bad on & off relationship & was afraid of getting hurt again so I had my guard up for a while with FH. About 9 months into dating, on Valentine's Day he went out of his way & set up a hotel room with candy & snacks & wine & stuff for my birthday & it was so cute. I got a feeling that night that I think I need to finally let my guard down bc this is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. He says the same thing. After that night we both knew this was it!!!
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I knew FH was 'the one' about a year in to our relationship- I had some bad family issues after my parents got divorced (right before I met him) he didnt judge me, leave me, or anything else- it was the first time I felt 100% comfortable telling someone every single thing about me--he is the besttt.
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I don't know that theres a specific moment in time when I knew. I think it was more of a gradual thing between us, but I knew fairly quickly that this was definitely different than other relationships I had been in.
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We were actually friends first for years and if anyone told me I'd end up with FH I would have thought they were crazy! He eventually made it clear he wanted more than a friendship and I said no for like a year! I cant say there was one moment when I realized he was the one, it was defintely a gradual thing. But once I knew, I knew, and I'd be lost w/out him!
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Posted by FutureMrsGTL
I don't know that theres a specific moment in time when I knew. I think it was more of a gradual thing between us, but I knew fairly quickly that this was definitely different than other relationships I had been in.
THIS! FH and I met on Plentyoffish.com in March of 2010, and had our first date on 4/2/10. We went out three Friday nights in a row, and then started seeing eachother almost every night.
About 6 weeks into dating, I went to FL to see my family, and he drove me at 4am to LGA, while sick as a dog. I knew he really and truly cared about me. Being away for that week was a killer, and I just knew he was different than the past 'boys' I had met. lol
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I knew FH was the one once we hit the one year mark. We had met in Aug of 05 and I had started my sophmore year of college the night we met. We worked both part time at night at the King Kullen that i still work at today. So we got to see each other every night and what not. What made me know was once we were together a year the next was my 21st birthday and we had a lunch with a few of my friends and then we were in the city to take a cruise around the city with another couple of our friends and he had gone to go to bathroom but he had told the captian that it was my 21st birthday so the captian had said Happy Birthday over the loud speaker on the boat. That is when i knew because if a guy could have the balls to do that and what else was he caple of..LOL
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I had a feeling he was the one right from the beginning. But there was no one time that I was like wow he is the one. I guess we just started acting like a married couple and we all knew!
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a few months in i knew, we were still young so i wasnt actually saying 'he's the one' but deep down i knew that this was it. we had gone threw alot with our relationship early on and kinda figured if we could get threw that and still be ok we could do anything.
also i fell in love with his family before him lol
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Hmmmm... this is gonna make me cry. Believe it or not I knew he was the one from the moment we started texting eachother. He spoke to me with soooo much respect that I couldn't believe it. We were set up by a mutual friend all she did was tell him about me and vice versa and it was done through facebook. I also had a history of dating losers, being heart broken constantly, and filled with anger so when I met FH I just couldn't believe the amount of respect he had and how honest and sincere he was from the very beginning. On our first date we went to Rockefeller Center and he was taking sooooo many pictures and I kept telling him to slow his roll and I'll never forget what he said. He said 'For our wedding I want like 3 photographers cause I love pictures and I love weddings, I've been to sooo many weddings and I can't wait for mine.' Instantly I was like 'our wedding' he had me and although I resisted sooo much his charm kept drawing me in more. A year later on our first year anniversary he took me to the same place and that's where he proposed. FYI: FH is someone so opposite of what I ever imagined and I love every bit about him!!!
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It was a gradual thing for me, I was so broken and bitter from my previous relationship that I was a total commitment phobe and didn't even want to speak about marriage for the first year and a half of my relationship with FH, BUT I said from the moment I started 'hanging out' with him that he was the type of guy you marry, so I definitely had a feeling, then as time went on I knew I never wanted to go a day with out him, it was the easiest and most drama free relationship I had ever been in, we're best friends and have already been through so many things that life has thrown with us, he's the perfect person to spend the rest of my life with
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One night I was going to sleep at my apartment and I had a bad feeling in my stomach. Happened again and again and finally I realized because I wasn't going to sleep next to FH and figured that had to mean something.
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It was love at first sight for us. I never believed such a thing. We met at my fathers surprise 50th birthday party. FH came with the DJ to help set up. I was decorating so I was there early. My back was to the door and the moment the door opened, I just felt a weird sensation. I turned around and he was at the door, our eyes met and I think we both knew right then. He proposed after a year
Bride in 2012
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I realized FH was the one when I realized I couldn't imagine not having him in my life.
EmilyandPeter
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I knew about two weeks into our relationship that we were meant to be together for ever. It was also the first time we said 'I love you' to each other.
Alannah22
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I knew right away. Our relationship was different than any other guy I have been with. We just clicked and had a great time with one another. We would stay up til 5am talking about nothing. We just loved to be around each other. FH said he knew a little further into our relationship that I was the one for him!
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i had just come out from a broken engagment and was reacquainted with FH. We never were close friends but after hanging out together for 4 days I knew he was the one. I thought I was rebounding, but I just knew. Eight months later we moved in together. If we didn't know each other back in middle school I would not have moved as fast as I did.
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I always thought it was a possibility but was going away to school right after our first anniversary. I was attending a college in another state and was nervous about the distance but we tried. The first time that he came up to see me, about a month after being away, I went to meet him at the train. When I saw him coming off the subway...I got the most butterflies I have ever gotten in my life and ran. I was just so happy and knew he was it. We made it through that year and are approaching 7 years!
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We had been dating for two years, I had become very sick and was hospitalized. It was a very scary and uncertain time. During that time my FH was unbelievable supportive, never left my side. I never expected it from him, it made me totally reevaluate our relationship.
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Hmmmm, I don't think it was an exact moment, but more of a bunch of small ones. The way we talk things out with each other is unreal, unlike anything else either one of us has ever known. We can lay in bed and just talk about stuff. Also when we fight, it takes a bit of cooling off, and then we talk it out. It's actually one of the things HE told the officiant when we met with her and she asked what is it we love about each other. He said, 'her gentleness in how she communicates with me, we can talk about anything, and I'm not good at talking but she helps me, guides my words and it works.' (HAHA, I think my jaw dropped at that moment, and I was like 'who just said that?') If you know him , you'd know what I mean. LOL. Awe. I love him!
