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time for me to vent...

Original post by jenny2penny

This was my last straw with sister-MOH...
I spoke with her over the weekend, she still has not bought her plane ticket for e-party (sept), & her husband is not coming, for whatever reason. I was going to ask him to be GM, but now not even sure, since he has no desire to come out for party.

Well what I am soooooooooo hurt about is she had the nerve to ask if she can invite a friend to the party. I said no. Then she said, she'll know no-one. So I said sure you will know mom, and you can finally meet FH family, his sisters can't wait to meet her. Her response, 'I don't want to talk to them,'
They she tried to get all joking and say I'll just drink.

Now if you remember I posted how hurt I am that she does not ackowledge FH birthday with even a card (I never once brought it up to her). May was her DH b-day and she thanked for the gift & asked when my FH B-day was (we've been together for 4 years), she came out and said, 'oh, well I don't send presents until there's a ring.'

I have done everything so far myself (mom is great too). she is in AZ, so I don't ask for much, just show up and that is a hastle. This is so upsetting to me that she can't even act happy for me. She never had a wedding, so maybe that's it, but the 'jokes' and comments are so hurting. now this, I can't dare tell FH, he'd be so hurt too.

I was never a big fan of me in the spotlight for a shower, but I doubt she'll even plan one.

I am so thankful for HIS thoughtful sisters, who understand how special this time is for me.

Thanks for listening.
AtticaQT Posted:

Re: time for me to vent...

I am so sorry that she is being that way. I always wished I had a sister - maybe they are not always a blessing...Stick to what you want and make sure she knows what you expect of her. You are her sister and she has to be understanding to that.
pschica Posted:

Re: time for me to vent...

my sister is pulling this too - if you need to vent, feel free to fm me - maybe we can have a ocnest - who's is worse!!

from someone who knows exactly what you are going through!
jenny2penny Posted:

Re: time for me to vent...

thank you deirdre, same to you, feel free to fm too.

pschica Posted:

Re: time for me to vent...

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