Time to say Good - Bye

Original post by SoontobeMrsH

Jan 27, 2008 11:39 PM

hey,

Some of you may have noticed that I havn't been on as much as I usually was on, and there is good reason for that.

My FH and I have decided not to get married. I'm ok, I would be lying to say I don't feel pain or sadness about it, but we are very lucky to come to this decession now, as opposed to six months from now.

I want to thank you for being there through out the planning process and a special & for those very special girls that have built friendships with over this site, and thanks for being there...

I know you all will have beautiful weddings, and I will pop on every now and then to see the pictures. After sharing the planning process with some of you for close to 2 years it would be really hard not too.

M

DeeluvsVinny Posted: Jan 29, 2008 02:44 PM

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So sorry to hear you're going through this, but it also sounds like you know this is the best decision for you.

I truly believe that everything happens for a reason and that we may not know the reason for a long time or maybe even never.

Stay strong and we're all here if you need anything.

mnd1202 Posted: Jan 29, 2008 02:47 PM

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sorry to hear...hope it all works out for you

novia26 Posted: Jan 29, 2008 02:56 PM

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You are one of the sweetest girls on these boards, I'm sure you will find happiness like you deserve.

alymikewedding08 Posted: Jan 29, 2008 02:57 PM

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I'm really sorry to hear about that, but I'm sure it's for the best. If you need anything we are always here!

Mici n KC Posted: Jan 29, 2008 03:17 PM

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So sorry you're going through this

Snick n Nick Posted: Jan 29, 2008 07:27 PM

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So sorry to hear this....best of luck to you

angl2001 Posted: Jan 29, 2008 07:36 PM

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so sorry sweetie! i sent you fm

SoontobeMrsH Posted: Jan 29, 2008 08:40 PM

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Posted by JeanetteandSteve

you are a strong, amazing woman and you are 100% doing the right thing.

...and i love you!

I love you too Thanks for standing behind me

SoontobeMrsH Posted: Jan 29, 2008 08:40 PM

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Posted by angl2001

so sorry sweetie! i sent you fm

and I replied

jeanne08 Posted: Jan 29, 2008 08:43 PM

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oh no!
Well like you siad, better to make this decision now than figure it out after the wedding. Best of luck! Things always seem to work themselves out!

Cutechef729 Posted: Jan 29, 2008 08:50 PM

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Awe!!! I'm so sorry! I hope you'll be back at least a little.

SoontobeMrsH Posted: Jan 29, 2008 08:50 PM

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Thanks guys, please no tears for me, this is liberating experience for me. I am sad but not shattered. I'm ok. No, I'm not I'm accepting , and welcome to this change. Change =Growth...

I must say I am beyond overwhelmed with the love, support and friendship I found at LIW Before LIW I never thought I was the type of person to build such emotional intamite bonds, by typing on a keyboard. I love that I was lucky enough to spend the past 2 years (well for US orignals, it;s been at least that long)... I consider myself to be be lucky for that too. Those friendships are the positive from this negative, it's bitter sweet.

Thanks for your support!