We called it all off, he is not a happy man and I realized that no matter what I do i will never make him happy. It is all about money, 'you do not help enough' are his words and after paying about $23,000.00 in his bills alone I need to get out of here and make myself happy and most of all my kids. At least they are worth every penny I spend and no back talk on how i do not contribute enough. So much for all the false pretenses, he seems to be in love with some one from work and she is a married womanm i picked up on this nightmare last sunday, at the Company party she could not even look at me and he looked at her with the most loving and longing look I have ever seen. So I wish you all the best in love and in true happiness. is time for me to sign off.
divabride
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Im so sorry hon. If you need to talk we are ALL here for you.
Laura1976
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I'm so sorry, I hope everything works out for you. Best of luck in the future.
littlebookworm4
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I am so sorry! I wish you all the best.
hbradio
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I am very sorry to hear this. Remember we are all here for you no matter what.
Bebalina
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MrsA814
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Im so sorry. I wish i could do something. We are going to miss you keep in Touch fm me and i will give you my e-mail and we will keep in touch. Good luck hun.
jennandrob
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I'm sending lots of these your way!
Borricuamorena0905
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So, so sorry! but it seems like the best thing.. You can not make someone happy, they have to be happy already!!!!!
Best of luck to you!!!
DMcK
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You have FM.
lillian771
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I'm so sorry. Best of luck to you.
bluesashbride
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i'm glad you are so strong and know when to quit. its a good thing to quit sometimes, and VERY very hard! good luck to you! and better things are ahead!
Bunnymonkey
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I'm so sorry!!!!
It doesn't sound like he was the one.
you are a strong woman, and such a great man is out there for you!!
randella
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you will look back on this and be so grateful that it ended. There is a reason for everything and you will make it through to happier times.
ChristieH
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shock2: I am sorry for him , He is an idiot you are better off!! sorry girl.
junie20002
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Right back at all of you I am doing ok, I feel like Daine Keaton in that movie she did recently with Jack Nicholson but I have been thru worse believe me if you girls knew 1/2 of the steps I have taken you would say to your selves 'damn that chick has problems' but I want to thank all of you for your sweet support.
As for me keeping posting some girls might get upset and ask me to leave cause ' do not belong to the 05 brides board anymore' so I will post once in a while just to see how all of you are doing.... you are all wonderful!!!hope you do make wonderful wives and mommys in the future.
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Posted by junie20002
Right back at all of you I am doing ok, I feel like Daine Keaton in that movie she did recently with Jack Nicholson but I have been thru worse believe me if you girls knew 1/2 of the steps I have taken you would say to your selves 'damn that chick has problems' but I want to thank all of you for your sweet support.
As for me keeping posting some girls might get upset and ask me to leave cause ' do not belong to the 05 brides board anymore' so I will post once in a while just to see how all of you are doing.... you are all wonderful!!!hope you do make wonderful wives and mommys in the future.
i am so sorry to hear your news. Do NOT leave the boards for that reason!!! You are always welcome here!!!
james'pokey
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I don't think you should stop posting. You belong here as much as everyone else!
DMcK
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Do NOT leave the boards! We are here for you
Ronkonkomonga
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Oh Fabi I'm so sorry. I haven't had much time to read the boards, but hearing this is so sad and I am really sorry. But dont leave the boards, this is the most supportive group I've ever met. There are other brides that have been in the same situation, and they are still around as well. Good luck and we are all here if you need us.
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Oh my gosh, I am so sorry you are going through all of this! But my God, you are an extremely insightful person to realize all of this before getting married. That is a great deal of strength that a lot of people don't really have. You are extremely blessed to have such a strong heart and I wish you nothing but happiness and peace as you transition into the next chapter of your life. And don't think twice about it, we will always be here.
