time to say goodbye...

Original post by junie20002

Dec 19, 2004 11:47 PM

We called it all off, he is not a happy man
and I realized that no matter what I do i will never make him happy.
It is all about money, 'you do not help enough' are his words and after paying about $23,000.00 in his bills alone I need to get out of here and make myself happy and most of all my kids. At least they are worth every penny I spend and no back talk on how i do not contribute enough. So much for all the false pretenses, he seems to be in love with some one from work and she is a married womanm i picked up on this nightmare last sunday, at the Company party she could not even look at me and he looked at her with the most loving and longing look I have ever seen.
So I wish you all the best in love and in true happiness. is time for me to sign off.

nicknmb Posted: Dec 21, 2004 05:08 PM

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Best of everything to you. You are a very strong person!

Darcy Posted: Dec 21, 2004 05:54 PM

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oh I am so sorry. Good luck

Dooodles Posted: Dec 21, 2004 06:35 PM

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Junie - I am so, so sorry to hear this. But if he is not the right man, better to know this now than after the I do's. And I am doubly sorry for you having to watch him look at this other woman at the company party.

jbride2b Posted: Dec 21, 2004 07:05 PM

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I'm so sorry that this happened to you .

I really must commend you on your wisdom to leave him. Considering everything you've said, you definitely did the right thing and you are incredibly strong to have done so! It's often a lot easier to stay with the person and go on with the marriage than to end it.

I hope you find a man who is truly in love with you and you both find peace and happiness together. Stay strong and wise, and keep posting here for you're always welcome (and if anyone says otherwise, just link this thread).

angelbear217 Posted: Dec 21, 2004 08:27 PM

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Oh my gosh I am so sorry! You will always have friends on this board you can talk to, to get you through this rough time. Hang in there. Sound like it was for the best (as crappy as that sounds)