I don't think the bride in question knows her friend sent me an FM.
I would understand if I said 'I hate it, it blows, I think you should forget about it completely'
I said nothing of the sort. This person took it as if I was attacking her friend. I told her to go back and read what I wrote carefully without jumping to conclusions. If she had any sense she would see I was not insulting or attacking, merely making a suggestion.
Those smart enough to know, can search my posts for today and see what I said on the BHB board and judge for yourself.
BKtoLI
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Let it be known...
I'M JEALOUS OF JANNA!!!!!!!!!
Nothing to be jealous of here!!!
Actually, I admit I am jealous of maybe one thing.....those that have their families and FH's families helping to pay for their weddings!! It's a pain in the butt paying for everything yourselves!!!
And Leslie, let me guess, Ed is watching the Giants game......
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I couldn't agree with you more. What's the point of asking for opinions if an honest opinion is not wanted? That's why I almost never reply to an opinion question because you never know what kind of reaction you'll get.
Anyway, don't let it bother you. You have a wedding to plan, enjoy yourself and don't let imature behavior bring ya down
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Posted by waterspout4
I try not to give opinions because, in essence, I'm jealous of everybody.
(If you don't know me, I hope you at least note the sarcasm)
I enjoy some good ol sarasm every now and then!
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Posted by Goldi1021
Let it be known...
I'M JEALOUS OF JANNA!!!!!!!!!
Nothing to be jealous of here!!!
Actually, I admit I am jealous of maybe one thing.....those that have their families and FH's families helping to pay for their weddings!! It's a pain in the butt paying for everything yourselves!!!
And Leslie, let me guess, Ed is watching the Giants game......
I think I can guess which post you are referring to, and in no way were you attacking or insulting. I think some people are just looking for drama. Takes a big, tough girl to hide behind an FM...
soontobemrsv
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i absolutely agree with you on that 100 %
DUCKS2001
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Janna, if people don't want honest opinions, then they shouldn't ask for one. Some of the pettiness that has been going on lately is just such junior high school stuff.
If someone can't handle someone's criticism, then DON'T ask for an opinion!
i totally agree, we are all brides on here helping one another, of course some people wont like your idea and some will, come on we need to be a family and stop all the jr high garbage, it is a time tobe happy not a time to get aggrevated.
BKtoLI
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I think I can guess which post you are referring to, and in no way were you attacking or insulting. I think some people are just looking for drama. Takes a big, tough girl to hide behind an FM...
Thanks, weekend twin!
I was very tempted to FM the bride herself and let her know what happened, or even posting on that thread explaining my stance. But I feel like at this point I don't need to justify my opinion.
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This petty crap is horrible in my opinion. Id we cant all be honest with each other, then why even post of these boards. We are all here to give each other out opinions. This is not a cheerleading forum where everyone can just say everything they THINK we want to hear.. Whats the purpose of these boards then? Whatever, and later for them. If I ask you girls for your opinions.. I can care less if you bash it. Opinions are like a$$holes... everyone has one!!
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Posted by lablab
I think I can guess which post you are referring to, and in no way were you attacking or insulting. I think some people are just looking for drama. Takes a big, tough girl to hide behind an FM...
Thanks, weekend twin!
I was very tempted to FM the bride herself and let her know what happened, or even posting on that thread explaining my stance. But I feel like at this point I don't need to justify my opinion.
smart thinking on your not fming her. Just remember that you gave what was asked for an OPINION. Try not to let people bother you you did what was asked of you.
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Janna, I'm pretty sure I know which post you are reffering to and in all honesty I thought you were genuine and diplomatic. No two people are the same and everyone has a different way of at looking at things. I'm a person that appreciates honesty especially if it genuine and without malice. I would not want anyone to stroke me ( for lack of a better word) and let's not forget that EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENT TASTE and THAT'S OK
