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tip the band?

Rosegirl Posted:

tip the band?

it is customary to tip the band, and if so, how much? thanks...

JIFFY Posted:

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Definitely tip the band. Unfortunately, i'm not having one so I don't know how much. I guess if I were having a band I would tip 100 per band member.

NY031978 Posted:

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def tip..im not sure how much. Id think 25 each along w their dinner is plenty!

Blu-ize Posted:

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I tipped $30 each and we fed them.

jeanla4c Posted:

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DH is in a band...for weddings they usually get tipped anywhere from between $200-$1000 for the 5 of them depending.

bellaro782 Posted:

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Posted by JIFFY

Definitely tip the band. Unfortunately, i'm not having one so I don't know how much. I guess if I were having a band I would tip 100 per band member.

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DO YOU NEED TO TIP A DJ???

neener1211 Posted:

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You only need to tip 25 to 30 each band member. you are also feeding them.

CKJ906 Posted:

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I spoke to the band leader about this, b/c I had no idea how much they were supposed to get. I didn't want to give too much because we are feeding them, but I didnt want to give them too little b/c they are a 10 piece band.

She told me that since we are feeding them to not give more than $150-200 for the whole band. They don't require you to feed them or tip them, so anything you give is being generous.

HTH
tonimike Posted:

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Posted by JIFFY

Definitely tip the band. Unfortunately, i'm not having one so I don't know how much. I guess if I were having a band I would tip 100 per band member.



Most bands , if im correct are 8 members or better , mine for instance is 9, if i tipped them 100 pp that would be 900 more ,, Im sorry I dont agree with that . Thats insane , espccially for what the bands go for. I actually called my band & asked them , of course they said no, I will but not 100 pp..


JMO
SeptBride70 Posted:

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I had a friend who played in bands a lot-- he told me he thought $50-$75 for each member was fair. So we will do that. When do you give them the tip-- after? I'm so afraid that if I have to give it to them while they still have playing to do that they are going to not have any energy or not care on purpose if they don't like my tip!!
CKJ906 Posted:

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Posted by STBMrsDaniRella

I had a friend who played in bands a lot-- he told me he thought $50-$75 for each member was fair. So we will do that. When do you give them the tip-- after? I'm so afraid that if I have to give it to them while they still have playing to do that they are going to not have any energy or not care on purpose if they don't like my tip!!



You can give it to them at the end or have someone give it to them like the best man.
Even $50-75 is alot per band member, are you feeding them too?
chellynyc Posted:

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Posted by tonimike


Posted by JIFFY

Definitely tip the band. Unfortunately, i'm not having one so I don't know how much. I guess if I were having a band I would tip 100 per band member.



Most bands , if im correct are 8 members or better , mine for instance is 9, if i tipped them 100 pp that would be 900 more ,, Im sorry I dont agree with that . Thats insane , espccially for what the bands go for. I actually called my band & asked them , of course they said no, I will but not 100 pp..


JMO



I agree 100% We're having a band as well with 7 members in it and no way are we giving them $100 pp., I'm thinking $25 or so per person in addition to them eating at the wedding. My band also works for themselves so they are pocketing all the money that we are paying them to play at our wedding too.
cindyandkevin Posted:

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Posted by bellaro782


Posted by JIFFY

Definitely tip the band. Unfortunately, i'm not having one so I don't know how much. I guess if I were having a band I would tip 100 per band member.

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DO YOU NEED TO TIP A DJ???




That is the age-old question on these boards: tips. They shouldn't be something you 'need' to do, you should 'want' to tip them bc they've done such a great job. Some brides tip regardless and others tip only if they've exceeded what was expected of them. The amount also varies and should be based on what's comfortable for you.

Personally, yes we tipped our DJ/MC team bc we were VERY happy with their service. Not only the day-of but everything leading up to the actual day counts as well.
tonimike Posted:

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Posted by chellynyc


Posted by tonimike


Posted by JIFFY

Definitely tip the band. Unfortunately, i'm not having one so I don't know how much. I guess if I were having a band I would tip 100 per band member.



Most bands , if im correct are 8 members or better , mine for instance is 9, if i tipped them 100 pp that would be 900 more ,, Im sorry I dont agree with that . Thats insane , espccially for what the bands go for. I actually called my band & asked them , of course they said no, I will but not 100 pp..


JMO



I agree 100% We're having a band as well with 7 members in it and no way are we giving them $100 pp., I'm thinking $25 or so per person in addition to them eating at the wedding. My band also works for themselves so they are pocketing all the money that we are paying them to play at our wedding too.



i fogot that , we are feeding them as well too,,lol
SeptBride70 Posted:

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Posted by CKJ906


Posted by STBMrsDaniRella

I had a friend who played in bands a lot-- he told me he thought $50-$75 for each member was fair. So we will do that. When do you give them the tip-- after? I'm so afraid that if I have to give it to them while they still have playing to do that they are going to not have any energy or not care on purpose if they don't like my tip!!



You can give it to them at the end or have someone give it to them like the best man.
Even $50-75 is alot per band member, are you feeding them too?



Yes I'm feeding them too-- thanks so much!
CLMon7906 Posted:

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Posted by bellaro782


Posted by JIFFY

Definitely tip the band. Unfortunately, i'm not having one so I don't know how much. I guess if I were having a band I would tip 100 per band member.

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DO YOU NEED TO TIP A DJ???




yes rosie....i think we tipped 50-100 per person [dj and mc]
ellebelle1 Posted:

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You do not need to tip the band. Feeding them a meal is something that is an option and is preferable. Trust me, if you needed to tip, the company would definitely let you know how much and when.

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