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Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
jaxx0711
Posted: Feb 18, 2013 12:21 PM+

Posted: Feb 18, 2013 12:21 PM
Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
Any fellow Brides out there that had/have their wedding at bridgeview. Need some ideas/suggestions for tips!Maitre'd, Bridal Attendant, Banquet Manager, waiters. bartendors?
im going to have approx 185p.
thanks!
Bride2Be78
Posted: Feb 18, 2013 09:50 PM+

Posted: Feb 18, 2013 09:50 PM
Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
I'm not a BYC bride but you should probably look at your contract to see what tips are covered. Our contract suggested $3-5 per person for MD. I think for Bridal attendant they suggest 100-200. Not sure about waiters and bartenders as this was included in our svc charge. HTH!
Irishbride17
Posted: Feb 18, 2013 10:44 PM+

Posted: Feb 18, 2013 10:44 PM
Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
Friends of ours just had their wedding their last night and when it came time to tip the MD and Bridal Attendant- the money that they tried to tip them was refused. They did an awesome job and the wedding was beautiful, really catered to everyone their, esp the bridal party!
fdnybride163
Posted: Feb 18, 2013 10:56 PM+

Posted: Feb 18, 2013 10:56 PM
Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
In our contract there is 400 already going to Matre d' and I'm not tipping bartenders bc they will get more than enough from all of my guests.I'm tipping bridal attendant and probably give Kathy a little something.
melnmatt2013
Posted: Feb 18, 2013 11:09 PM+

Posted: Feb 18, 2013 11:09 PM
Re: Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
Posted by fdnybride163
In our contract there is 400 already going to Matre d' and I'm not tipping bartenders bc they will get more than enough from all of my guests.
I'm tipping bridal attendant and probably give Kathy a little something.
Mine has the $400 going to the Maitre'd fee in the contract as well... does this mean we dont give the $3-5pp that girls on here talk about? I am confused.
futuremap
Posted: Feb 19, 2013 07:41 AM+

Posted: Feb 19, 2013 07:41 AM
Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
Check your contract! Mine has the fees on there and the tip suggestions!
jaxx0711
Posted: Feb 19, 2013 10:20 AM+

Posted: Feb 19, 2013 10:20 AM
Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
Thanks for all the feedback! im looking at my contract now, and it says the service charge includes, sales staff, waitstaff, doormen, valet, bathroom attendants, bridal attendants, cleaning etc. and it has the Maitre'd fee at $2 a head.now i know i wont have to go crazy on a high tip for the maitre'D since the fee is already included in the contract.
Pinkisles
Posted: Feb 19, 2013 10:47 AM+

Posted: Feb 19, 2013 10:47 AM
Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
I'm so confused...do I tip the Maitre'D? Who is the maitre'D??
jaxx0711
Posted: Feb 19, 2013 12:14 PM+

Posted: Feb 19, 2013 12:14 PM
Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
Maitre'D is like the head waiter/host
melnmatt2013
Posted: Feb 19, 2013 04:43 PM+

Posted: Feb 19, 2013 04:43 PM
Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
Are you tipping the maitre'd above and beyond the fee in the contract? I am going to check with my DOC on this one and see what she thinks.
fdnybride163
Posted: Feb 19, 2013 10:55 PM+

Posted: Feb 19, 2013 10:55 PM
Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
Since its in the contract as 'gratuity' to md no I am not tipping extra. To me I think it's an obnoxious amount to demand bc if they don't do their job properly they are still guaranteed a tip. And this was snuck into my contract without being discussed. Fh was so annoyed.I'm tipped the night of my bridal attendant but I am makng it very clear that if md isn't up to my expectations we willNOT pay that much tip.
fdnybride163
Posted: Feb 19, 2013 10:56 PM+

Posted: Feb 19, 2013 10:56 PM
Re: Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
Posted by melnmatt2013
Posted by fdnybride163
In our contract there is 400 already going to Matre d' and I'm not tipping bartenders bc they will get more than enough from all of my guests.
I'm tipping bridal attendant and probably give Kathy a little something.
Mine has the $400 going to the Maitre'd fee in the contract as well... does this mean we dont give the $3-5pp that girls on here talk about? I am confused.
I think the $400 is based on your guest count,
Pinkisles
Posted: Feb 20, 2013 09:35 AM+

Posted: Feb 20, 2013 09:35 AM
Re: Tipping at Bridgeview Yacht Club
Posted by melnmatt2013
Are you tipping the maitre'd above and beyond the fee in the contract? I am going to check with my DOC on this one and see what she thinks.
Is our maitre'd Samantha??
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