To change or not to change???
This is a little complicated, sorry if its confusing.
First, we are getting married at the RH, so we were not going to have a formal rehearsal. But we are planning on having a RD, to do a run through of the ceremony and so that everyone in the bridal party can meet each other. Because our wedding is on a Saturday morning (11:30) and some of the bridal party is from out of town, we were planning on doing the RD a 3 weeks before the wedding.
Second, I found out when my shower is, even though its supposed to be a surprise. The date we picked for the RD is the weekend after my shower (which is a Sunday brunch).
FH just called and said our officiant will be away on the date we picked for the RD - not really a biggie - he's a friend and we could meet with him anytime to go over what we want. But, FH asked me if I want to change the date of the RH to the week before, which would be the Saturday before my shower (on Sunday),and 4 weeks before the wedding. I'm thinking it would be good in a way, because then one of my BMs and her daughter (FG) who are OOT, would already be here. But, I'm a little worried that a Saturday night party the night before my shower (which is a brunch), might be too much. Any thoughts? Would you change the RD to the same weekend as the shower or just leave it for the next weekend?
First, we are getting married at the RH, so we were not going to have a formal rehearsal. But we are planning on having a RD, to do a run through of the ceremony and so that everyone in the bridal party can meet each other. Because our wedding is on a Saturday morning (11:30) and some of the bridal party is from out of town, we were planning on doing the RD a 3 weeks before the wedding.
Second, I found out when my shower is, even though its supposed to be a surprise. The date we picked for the RD is the weekend after my shower (which is a Sunday brunch).
FH just called and said our officiant will be away on the date we picked for the RD - not really a biggie - he's a friend and we could meet with him anytime to go over what we want. But, FH asked me if I want to change the date of the RH to the week before, which would be the Saturday before my shower (on Sunday),and 4 weeks before the wedding. I'm thinking it would be good in a way, because then one of my BMs and her daughter (FG) who are OOT, would already be here. But, I'm a little worried that a Saturday night party the night before my shower (which is a brunch), might be too much. Any thoughts? Would you change the RD to the same weekend as the shower or just leave it for the next weekend?
