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To dais or not to dais?

1112bride Posted:

To dais or not to dais?

Anyone having a dais at their wedding for the BP? I'm thinking of past weddings that I've been to, and none of them have it. I don't think I will either cause most of my BP have significant others that aren't in the wedding, so I think it would be awkward for them not to sit together at dinner.

pixietina Posted:

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I am doing a sweetheart table. One of my BM's wants a dais but I think its because she wants to be in the spotlight.

1112bride Posted:

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Posted by pixietina

I am doing a sweetheart table. One of my BM's wants a dais but I think its because she wants to be in the spotlight.




You know, it's all about the Bridesmaids =)
PeaceLoveWedding Posted:

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I was gonna do a dais but then realized we'd rarely be sitting down so it wouldn't make sense. Jmo.

lisam1113 Posted:

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I only have 3 BM's & 2 GM so I'm just putting them all at seperate tables surrounding ours with their families/significant others. We're not sitting for that long anyway...

Thar1127 Posted:

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yeah I dont care for the big dais, i like the sweetheart table

FutureJOC Posted:

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We have a sweetheart table and the 2 tables on either side of ours will be where the BP is sitting. There are other people mixed in with those tables so it's not all BP.

LMEL1223 Posted:

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Posted by FutureJOC

We have a sweetheart table and the 2 tables on either side of ours will be where the BP is sitting. There are other people mixed in with those tables so it's not all BP.



We are doing the same.
IrishAli Posted:

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Go for the sweetheart table and seat the BP with their friends

StephanieJoy Posted:

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sweetheart tabel and then one table with the bp and thier dates if they are seeing or dating any one . one of our bm and gm are married to each other then another gm is married but not to one of my bm

Irishbride16 Posted:

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I have a sweetheart table...and every wedding i been to has them...and i will just have the BM sitting on one side with there date and the GM on the other side with dates....

bridetobesteph Posted:

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no dais, sit everyone with their friends so everyone is happy, we'll have a sweetheart table that we'll barely be sitting at anyway!

anjelagain Posted:

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Posted by pixietina

I am doing a sweetheart table. One of my BM's wants a dais but I think its because she wants to be in the spotlight.



LMAO im sure she does!!! too funny
anjelagain Posted:

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I dont hate the idea of a dais for the BM table, the problem is most ppls wedding parties arent the true close ppl, so ifyou feel like it would be a fun table, then do it

Yankeeelove Posted:

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We're doing a sweetheart table and letting the BP sit w/ their dates.

halfbaked Posted:

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No dais- our BP was spread out across a few tables.

kdm822 Posted:

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Im not.. same reason.

AlexandMike2012 Posted:

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We're not and we're not doing a sweetheart table we're going to sit with our family

Moonmist09 Posted:

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FH & I will be sitting in our sweetheart table. the way our RH is siutated, there is a small step you have to go up and then you reach us so its like we are on a stage.
the BP will be sitting in their own table to one side of us, it will only be BP memebers and the two guests that two of our BP memebers will be bringing.

I think having a Dais for the whole bridal party is a very dated thing and the last time i saw one was a wedding i went to in the early 90's
cleokizzy Posted:

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Posted by StephanieJoy

sweetheart tabel and then one table with the bp and thier dates if they are seeing or dating any one . one of our bm and gm are married to each other then another gm is married but not to one of my bm



same here! sweetheart table for US and a special table for BM/GM and significant others

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