Hey…quick question….do you think I should invite my college roomate to my wedding? I doubt she will come but I just don't know what to do! She invited me to hers (2005) but I couldn't go. We have talked briefly like 2 times since then. She knows I am getting married because I told her last time I talked to her in Dec.
I originally did not have her on the list but wasn't sure if I should add her or not. I probably wont add her but wanted to see what you guys think? (PS – even tho we don't talk anymore I feel like she is the type to feel sad that I didn't invite her.)
bluekat16
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I would say invite her since she invited you to hers.
I doubt she'll come but it's a courtesy invite.
Kimbalina
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Invite her. Most likely she will not come, but I think nice gesture
hannahshim
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you guys talked twice after 2005? i dont think its necessary unless you still feel close to her.. but if it was me i would just send her an invite so she doesnt feel sad
Jenn04
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I am leaning towards just doing it and not because I want a gift of anything. She is a fragile one and I dont want to hurt her feelings.
jeanyus27
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yeah, i would send it just as a courtesy
SANDYROODY
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I say, go ahead and invite her. Like you said, it's possible that she may not even show up but I think out of courtesy, you should send her an invitation and let her decide if she wants to come or not.
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Posted by SANDYROODY
I say, go ahead and invite her. Like you said, it's possible that she may not even show up but I think out of courtesy, you should send her an invitation and let her decide if she wants to come or not.
agree....and who knows, maybe it will help you guys start talking more regularly!
Munchkn16
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How big is your guest list? If you needed a B-list, she'd be a prime candidate. I don't think that it's absolutely necessary that you invite her given your relationship.
roan126
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If it was me, I probably wouldnt. But if you dont think she'll come anyway and no harm done, then you might as well.
Mighty Mouse
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I would invite her as well.
kristin597
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As long as you have the room, I would invite her. Nothing to lose if you invite her, but if you don't you may end up hurting her feelings.
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I'm actually in almost the EXACT situation w/one of my old roommates; I went to her wedding in Colorado in 2005 and have barely spoken to her since; she lives in California now w/a baby and I know she won't come, but I feel I should make the gesture; have also been wondering what to do...
